Very worried about how I behaved

[dicomoro50]

I had a very regrettable incident 4 days ago. I am completeley monogamous with wife and small kids but had this fantasy. So I was in a sex shop and suddenly in a booth. A guy performed oral sex on me two 20 second periods. He looked young and clean (I know this means nothing). The first time I went from soft to a bit hard, the second time I was harder. I did not cum or even close. I ran away. I am panicking at this point. I have read many sites and there appears to be STD risks . I am freaking out. Can I please get the benefit of our insights as to men who have friends with STDS, or have more knowledge of the risk involved. Anyone can please help me sharing their thoughts. Please refrain from scolding me, I am so upset and I know I did terribly wrong and now I have to deal with this matter having a family. HOw likely is that I will get something? When I should test?

[gracefromHHP]

Just burning with urination isn't a herpes issue in most cases.  these were 2 very short encounters and you have a lot of anxiety about them. Are you drinking plenty of fluids?

grace

[dicomoro50]

After 8 days just a burning sensation on penis but not while urinating. I am pretty sure its my paranoia causing it. When does herpes symptom show? Thanks for your words of support Grace

[gracefromHHP]

the odds that you contracted a std from this are very low. don't let the guilt of the encounter over power the actual risk for you.  Really I wouldn't even bother with any follow up testing at all unless you get obvious symptoms.

grace

[dicomoro50]

to your knowledge how does it help regardings STDS that my exposure was less than a minute versus lets say 15 minutes, thanks bro

[Vance2335]

Your risk was near zero. While is is possible to get gonorrhea, NGU, herpes and syphilis from oral sex most of the time people don't and with the amount of time you had your exposure I would not worry.

If you must test then gonorrhea-1 week, syphilis-6 weeks, herpes-4 months.