Thanks for your comment and your help. I tried talking to her about the birthcontrol, but I dunno if she will though.
Thanks for your comment, and I knew that if I said that she was stupied that would just be wrong on me. Oh and she did finally go to the doctor and it turned out to be a bladder infection.
She could have something as simple as a yeast infection, and she needs to get checked out.
I appreciate that you are there for your friend, but I would suggest not telling her she was stupid, etc. She's probably already figured that out. Maybe you can offer to go with her to the doctor.
Every state has different laws about notifying parents, but if you call your local std clinic or Planned Parenthood, they can tell you the laws in your state.
If you are in the UK, she can go to any GUM clinic and get tested and they will not tell her parents.
AJ
You are a smart friend and I encourage you to keep on your friend about seeing a Dr. Her parents do not have to be in the room with her when she sees the Dr. She could go to a planned parenthood or a local health department for STD testing.
To be honest I don't know what it could be, others on her might, but again I encourage you to almost force her to see a Dr. At the very least she can get on birth control since they don't use condoms.