12 to 16 months ago i had two separate oral sex encounters in one instane i gave and received oral sex lasted 5 minutes. Another just gave head. I m married and about 12 months ago (sept) me and wife started to have baby. She got pregnant in november and we had baby last month. About 2 months ago i started to have itching and burning around my anus and sometimes in my penis.also noticed a small painless pimple near my anus and a small rash under my foreskin. So 2- 3 weeks back i freaked and applied witch hazel in the area. The pimple started to hurt but subsided the next day. Also the rash disappeared but the burning is still there around my anus. Now 2 3 days ago i started having this swollen feeling around the anus as if my prostate is enlarged. Went to urgent care. They checked me and took my urine and blood for testing that will take another week to come back. Now i even feel burn i fart and in penis it feels like something is stuck. I m completely freaked out and depressed. Crying for most of the day as i dont want anything to happen to my newborn and my loving wife. Please help.