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[1trouble42]

I had unprotected sex January 8 with a 36 year old stranger. I had a condom but she said she was allergic to latex so I went along with  unprotected sex. The sex lasted about 5 minutes and I smartened up and questioned her about her past.  She said that I shouldn't worry and that she had a negative test for both HIV and hep 3 months ago. I am worried about the common STD and on January 10 I went to a walk in clinic. I did not do any test but the doctor did give me two prescriptions. One was a 4 pill dose that I took all on day one, the second was deoxycycline that I am taking twice a day for 10 days.

I am married and trying to protect my wife who does not know

My questions are:

How long should I wait to have sex?

I have noticed a little burning but not when I urinate. I have also experienced a little jock itch in between the creases of my legs. Could this be associated with an STD?  

When should I get retested so that I can get on with my life and learn from this horrible lesson.

I have had no discharge and just a little burning which feels like a tad bit of icy hot on me but not while urinating. Could this be a symptom of an STD?

I am a bit of a hypochondriac and my mind is a powerful weapon against myself,  what should I be worried about and what should I do next?  How long does it take for the medicine to work?  Can I give this to my wife through oral sex?  We do not use condoms and she would know something is up if I asked to use one.  Please help ease my mind

[1trouble42]

Thanks Vance. I did not get treated for gonorrhea but I would have had the symptoms by now. Thanks for your time

Will

[Vance2335]

1. How long should you wait? That is really up to you. That medication for probably for gonorrhea and chlamydia and the recommend time is 1 week after medication is finished. But if you want other tests then syphilis-6 weeks, HIV-3 months, Herpes-3-4 months. Just make sure to use condoms.

2. Probably not

3. Gave some testing times above and test for gonorrhea and chlamydia 2-3 weeks after medication is finished

4. No you can not give your wife anything from giving her oral sex from your unprotected sex exposure. Medication takes about 1 week to fully work. I can't tell you what to do about your wife and sex.

[1trouble42]

Grace,

I didn't pay anybody?  Didn't know I had to pay and backed out.

[gracefromHHP]

you also paid to post on the experts forum. wait for your reply there to get your money's worth :)

grace