Anal sex with my bf, need help...

[sistalady19]

Okay, I have a bf and he really enjoys anal sex, and I think it's okay.. However, I just feel kind of dirty afterwards (mental thing, not physical at all)... So I told him I never want to do that again.. And he said it wasn't fair to not do something he enjoys.. Am I selfish for that?

[bailyboo]

Your boyfriend enjoys it and mentally it males u feel dirty do u know why it makes u feel that way?  U need to figure that out 1st then talk to ur boyfriend and explain to him how u feel about anal. I'm not sure if u should cut him off completely...maybe do it on special occasions that way he has something to look forward to once in a while. I just worry that if u stop completely he might start looking for it else where and u don't want that. I hope ur boyfriend and u can work this out,comunication is the key to any good relationship. Good luck!

[mojogal]

It is your body, and caryopteris is so right, you don't have to do anything you dont want to do. if he really cares for you, he should understand. If he doesn't I would move on to someone else who does care.

[pittfan17]

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[Caryopteris]

No.  It is your body.  He has no right to ask you to do something you don't want to do.  If one particular act is important to him, he should find a partner that also enjoys it.  You won't have trouble finding people who are compatible with what you enjoy.