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Being honest with sexual history

I would like to start a fresh relationship with a new person (who may have had a monogamous relationship), however I am concerned that I may have caught something (sex with an escort). I did the test (also experience no sign of symptoms), however I am concerned about HPV.

Should I be open about this? The relationship will fail if I disclose this information?
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I also don't think you need to specifically state you had sex with an escort.  You can tell her that you have had sex before, but that is about all of the explanation someone owes a future partner, that plus being entirely certain of your health status and the possibility of passing along an unpleasant surprise.  Any person in the world who has sex should continuously be sure of their status regarding sexually transmitted disease.  If you feel you have been exposed to HPV, talk to your doctor.  If this fear is imaginary, let it be a useful prompt to get the HPV vaccine.  Every gentleman should, for the sake of the ladies in his life.
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It's just the guilt, i feel it everyday and being honest with someone will ruin any meaningful relationship.

Just feeling anxiety everyday :(
139792 tn?1498585650
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I think, there is no need to narrate the history and do not ask her about the past. However both of you must get clean report about your health...
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But if she does ask about my sexual history? I really had no sexual experience apart from going to a escort.
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