Can't ejaculate without using imagination

[MxEdCl]

Hello,

I have always had this problem where no matter how attractive I find someone or how appealing they may be, I cannot get off to just the feeling of sex. It feels incredible, especially with my current partner (whom I find very attractive), but I can't seem to ejaculate without thinking of different scenarios (sometimes with her, sometimes with people who don't exist, or perhaps someone else I know).

I really want to be able to just ejaculate from the physical pleasure of being with my partner, but I don't know if there's something wrong with me, or if this is something that will stay with me for the rest of my life. What should I do?

I would also like to point out that I have a fetish for microphilia (that is, I fantasize about being significantly smaller than the person I am sexually engaged with). Seeing as that is impossible, and I can never act it out (at least not with current technology), I have always had to just use my imagination. And, when I have sex, I almost always think about me being small (like the size of a doll whereas my mate is a regular sized person). Does the fact I can't currently have any of that type of fantasy become a reality contribute to my problem?

Any help is appreciated.

Thank you!

[NOHARD]

Hi Well thany you, and your way out is to take an 8 week sabbatical of no sex of any kind, so no masturbating, no sex with the g/f, no oral to keep the g/f happy, this a totalily free 8 weeks, this should reboot your body, so you can get back in the game again without your problems, but you need to honest with your g/f to why your doing it, and somehow you need to keep her happy without any sexual contact, and the last thing is you now need to give up porn for life, if you want a sex life, its that simple.
Good Luck
PS you can google porn enduce porn.

[MxEdCl]

Hello,

I do in fact watch porn but only masturbate maybe 1-2 times a week. I do have sex quite often with my partner probably around 3-5 times a week. I will look into this further.

thank you.

[NOHARD]

Hi, If your having this problem, the I think somebody is watching to much porn on his computer, the best thing for you would be take the 8 week sex free sabbatical, sounds like you have a problem with porn enduced ED, say yes if I'm right.