Women may have problem in having orgasm during a sexual intercourse.This is normal.I think you need to talk to a sexologist who can counsel both of you and teach you how to manage such situations.Talk to your Doctor and undergo sexual counseling.You may need sex education.
You don't need a sex counceler or education. Some women just can't have an orgasm form vaginal intercourse. Most it takes clitorial stimulation.
Thank you Vance2335...I never thought of it that way. Thanks for not making me feel dumb and thanks for the advice.