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Confusion
Hi. I'm a 21 year old male. I'm still a virgin. I've just engaged in a relationship with a girl; I realy like her, and I feel like I truly love her. Before her I thought I only liked men (gay), but I actually have very strong feelings about her, and it's making me confused; yesterday we got to kiss a lot and caress our bodies, and I was very responsive to it. At the time I was feeling ill, I had a cold, my thorat was soaring and I was feverish, and still, I had some erections, and I got turned on. I lost it after about an hour and a half of foreplay and I asked her to stop there, 'cause I was not feeling right. She was very comrehensive and we stopped. I'd like to know what's going on, if I lost the pace because I was ill, or if there's something else, because I repeat, I feel like I love her very, very much. Is it possible for me to be a bisexual? Or is it that I'm still defining my orientation?
oh and by the way being a virgin is awesome, people respect that. seriously.
i think it's awesome that you're really into her, it's possible you could be bisexual and there's nothing wrong with that either. besides i think you know what you really are inside you just have to admit it to yourself, i had a friend who was bisexual who was in a long relationship with a guy and they just recently broke up but i knew it was hard for her because she was attracted to both sexes and she was always confused, now she is doing well and is okay with everything. cant help who you like, dont look into it so much just let your feelings come out naturally.
I would guess that you are still in the exploring state of your life.
Have you ever engaged in intercourse with a man? It is always possible that you are still exploring your sexuality. There are people who do not start exploring their sexuality until they are well into their 40s due to social issues. I would say that there is nothing wrong with you and that just because you lost your erection after an hour and a half does not mean that there is anything wrong.
~S.A.
~S.A.
u need to know that u love her not that i feel like u love her. and yes u could very well be bi. and even though ur 21 doesnt mean that the first time will not be scary. does she know that ur a virgin?
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