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Don't feel like haveing sex!!!!!

Im 27 years old and im never in the mood to have sex i have 4 children 9,8,4,an 3 i have talked to my dr about my sex life an they keep telling me its i have 4 kids an im tired but i dnt believe that.....ive never had a orgasm.......i do feel tired alot but not from lack of sleep i just feel like i have no energy all i want to do is eat...we haven't had sex in almost 3 mths and its driveing me insane.....can anyone give me some suggestions.....Thanks!!!!!
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Hi lasha, just some info for you, I want you to google dobson and ross, and on here you will find all the info you need how to orgasm, Dr Betty Dobson runs life class's for women on how to, Wait for it yes, orgasm.
So here you should find all you want, you can even download vids, for a day week and so on, on how to achieve this problem of yours.
Things that may help you Tribulus its a herb, boost your testosterone, lift your libido and kick up your energy levels, but takes 8 weeks to get to full power, try some cayenne, help clean your blood and give you an all round lift, got on some vits C, E, Zinc and some Iron, and not forgetting the womens all round vit Evening Primrose.
Good Luck
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I just went to the dr and they done some blood work so hopefully ill find out 2mor whats going on......Thanks!!!!!!:)
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I agree with the above posters. See your Dr for some testing and learn what pleases you. Just like a man a woman wants to be pleased in the bedroom too. If you're not having orgasms then you are not being pleased.
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Maybe you should learn how to give yourself an orgasm.  Maybe that would help you destress.  
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If you have no energy, has your iron level been tested?  That's the first thing I'd check.  It doesn't necessarily improve libido, but it does help your energy level a lot.

As far as not wanting sex or apparently not having any sex drive, once you get your iron levels checked, if they are normal you could ask the doctor to check your hormone levels.

If you are "never in the mood to have sex," why is not having sex "in almost 3 mnths driveing me insane"?
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