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Feeling nothing during intercourse
I'm 23 yrs old, married for a year, and have two children (2yrs old and 3mos). I am unable to feel anything during intercourse with my husband (only man I've been with, so no question has to being able to before). I feel nothing inside, I get some feeling with my clit but no orgasm. My husband knows about this, I am attrached to him and enjoy pleasuring him and get aroused myself. I have no idea as to why I feel nothing. I know alot of other woman have this same issue and no sure answer as to why. I know I have some stress from this (who would'nt) but no past bad experiences or anything like that. I do Kegel exercises, researched up the whazoo and hubby's tried everyway to help with this as well. Is there any actual possible answer for why I don't fell anything? And I'm not on the pill, I watch my cycle. Please help. :(
hi there... see child birth causes the vaginal wall to dilate so there is a chance that your orgasmic phase or peak point increases i'm just guessing this is one of the possible reasons.. i would suggest rubbing of clit along with penetration i think that gives intense pleasure and just hope it helps.. god bless you...
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Some researches that we reviewed in my sexual health class found that when many volunter women were touched or had pressure somewhere in their vagina, many of the women were unaware that they were even being touched. In fact, in most cases, the women reported no feeling whatsoever.
And it's being found more often now that women think that they have feeling, but are just simply feeling the pressure during intercourse when the man's penis is pressing aginst other organs or even the cervix.
We also went over several doctor's notes who truely believe that a women cannot orgasm through vaginal stimulation alone. Which I do also believe in this. A man's penis is like a women's clitoris - it's where they feel the pleasure.
I would suggest trying oral if you have not already if you are looking to get more of your pleasure.
But otherwise, I don't know if they have anything available that can change what is being found to be quite normal - women having no feeling.
Good news is that you are getting some pleasure out of pleasuring him, and if you should ever want more for yourself, there are plenty of rubs and lotions that can help highten the sensitivity of your clitioris.
Good luck and Best wishes! ;)