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I have a lot of question. Please help me!
Hello I am 21 years old and lost my virgintiy last Saturday with the guy that I am dating.
It is my first time so I am totally curious about everything.
1. Is it normal if you did not bleed while having sexual intercourse?
** There is no blood came out to me while we are having sex but when I went to the toilet to pee, I found some blood on the tissue that I used to clean my main part.
and it has been 2 days after that night and I still have some tiny blood and like a gooey thing coming out to me I do not know what it is called. Its like the thing that is coming out in a girl before she have her period but the color of it is a bit of light brown with a little bit of redish color.
2. Is it normal to have body pain on the next day?
** The next day I feel like my vagina is sore and its like there still something inside of me.
I can still normally move and walk but I just feel uncomfortable, but after that day its not that hurt any more unlike yesterday.
3. We had sex at night and we woke up and had sex again.
4. I am young and I am not yet ready to get pregnant is there any time that I have to wait before I consult a doctor and ask for a prescription to have some pills?
I would be very happy if you can answer to my questions. Thank you so much!
It is my first time so I am totally curious about everything.
1. Is it normal if you did not bleed while having sexual intercourse?
** There is no blood came out to me while we are having sex but when I went to the toilet to pee, I found some blood on the tissue that I used to clean my main part.
and it has been 2 days after that night and I still have some tiny blood and like a gooey thing coming out to me I do not know what it is called. Its like the thing that is coming out in a girl before she have her period but the color of it is a bit of light brown with a little bit of redish color.
2. Is it normal to have body pain on the next day?
** The next day I feel like my vagina is sore and its like there still something inside of me.
I can still normally move and walk but I just feel uncomfortable, but after that day its not that hurt any more unlike yesterday.
3. We had sex at night and we woke up and had sex again.
4. I am young and I am not yet ready to get pregnant is there any time that I have to wait before I consult a doctor and ask for a prescription to have some pills?
I would be very happy if you can answer to my questions. Thank you so much!
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Condom should be used right from the beginning of the intercourse as there is pre-ejacuation fluid on glans. This does contain sperm ( in less) quantity. If you are fertile enough, you are likely to conceive.
Theoretically it is possible but the risk is still very low. And it is with sex like with all other things, you get better when you practice:)! So maybe you missed to have the condom on during all the sex this first time but you will get it right next time.
Focus on the positive side now; you had sex, it hopefully felt good and it will feel even better in the future when all the pain and discomfort is gone.
Have fun and take care!
Focus on the positive side now; you had sex, it hopefully felt good and it will feel even better in the future when all the pain and discomfort is gone.
Have fun and take care!
Yes we used condom but he put it in the middle of our intercourse like 2 or 3 mins. since we started. Is there any possibility for me to get pregnant because we didn't use condom at first? Thank! you!
I also want to add that condoms protect you and him from STD's. You should use condoms always!
Its normal to bleed...all women are differ in the amount of days and type of blood.
It is also normal to be sore in the vaginal area. That should lessen the more you have sex.
Having sex multiple times is also normal
If you don't want to get pregnant you should schedule a doctors appointment ASAP. There are plenty of birth control methods to prevent pregnancy that are also safe. In the mean time use condoms. Don't let him say "no" to a condom. Last thing you want is a baby at 21.
It is also normal to be sore in the vaginal area. That should lessen the more you have sex.
Having sex multiple times is also normal
If you don't want to get pregnant you should schedule a doctors appointment ASAP. There are plenty of birth control methods to prevent pregnancy that are also safe. In the mean time use condoms. Don't let him say "no" to a condom. Last thing you want is a baby at 21.
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Millions of people are diagnosed with STDs in the U.S. each year.
STDs can't be transmitted by casual contact, like hugging or touching.
Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex.
Discharge often isn't normal, and could mean an infection or an STD.
STDs aren't transmitted through clothing. Fabric is a germ barrier.
Normal vaginal discharge varies in color, smell, texture and amount.
