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9126885 tn?1404418392

I have children & I'm bisexual tmi lol sorry

So I've been bisexual nearly as long as I can remember, my fiancee hates it so he just pretends I'm not. I'm 23 weeks pregnant but my craving isn't for penis, it's more for a sweet peach. My best friend wants to experiment for fun but idk if I should. Ps. Masturbation doesn't work, I'm never mentally satisfied. What should I do??
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8012558 tn?1399308657
Just because you are bisexual doesn't give you a free pass to cheat. You are in the committed relationship now and being with someone else would be consider cheating, just like when straight people cheat. You need to be honest with your fiancée and if he is not the one, then you need to leave him and pursue other people.  
Straight people are also tempted every day to go outside their relationships, but depends on you character how you are going to handle that. Just because you have urge, doesn't make it ok. I hope you know that.
If your fiancée is aware of what you are thinking about and it's ok with that, then I guess it's a different story. But if he is not, you need to think about how important your relationship with him is to you, because your cheating, would probably end it. Think about your unborn child too.
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I messaged u
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I can understand why your boyfriend would be upset. No one wants to hear that their boyfriend or girlfriend is sexually attracted to someone else and that they can't please them.
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9101689 tn?1401720149
Just do it and don't tell him but don't have a threesome that in itself may cause a problem in the future
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8765540 tn?1407588917
Im with Melloyellow^^ suggest a threesome!! Seriously my husband would love that, hes actually almost convinced me, if I weren't preggers right now lol
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Im bisexual too so i know how hard it is. Befor i was with my boyfreind i was with a woman for 6 years and as soon as that ended i started messing around with my boyfreind/baby daddy, but we were not dating tho between june till jan. I wasent quite over my exgf and i misses the "sweet peach" too. So in dec. I hooked back up with her for only onenight, keep in mind me and my baby daddy wernt official, but the guilt still sticks with me to this day. So i WOULD NOT do it espcialy being pregnant. That guilt cant be any good for the baby. Luckly my boyfreind is very understanding and is down for a 3way. Have a serious talk with him be he will like the idea of throwing another woman in the fun.
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You should suck it up lol a lot of the girls here cant have sex even when they want to and theres nothing we can really do but wait till we can lol
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8628831 tn?1407267564
Lets put it this way.
If you did it, would you tell him about it or keep it a secret? Keeping it a secret would mean that youd feel guilty or didnt want to hurt his feelings.
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8550670 tn?1399061803
My friend doesn't believe in monogamous relationships. He's married (started as sorta a business deal) but they have since then committed to being together. Even though he doesn't believe in being with only one person that is what he does for her. He would see no problem in being with other people if she were ok with it,  but she isn't so he accepts that and it's faithful.
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9126885 tn?1404418392
I agree, it's so hard changing something you've embraced for so long, but he's worth resisting the temptation.
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8550670 tn?1399061803
Your significant other is clearly bothered by it. I think to ignore that is wrong. And to pursue other options is cheating.
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I'm bi as well but if my husband asked me not to do it I wouldn't. My relationship is everything and I wouldn't want to jeporize that but if he's ok with it. Why not! If it would make u happy
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7283881 tn?1401875642
You being with a sweet peach would actually be cheating
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8690664 tn?1405214716
I would stay faithful
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