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Is Anal Sex Safe For Me?

Nowadays many straight people also perform anal sex. I have seen one of my friends, she was very happy after experiencing her first anal sex. I just want to know is it safe to perform anal sex after 40's?
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3149845 tn?1506627771
The male really should consider using condoms with anal sex as fecal material does contain bacteria esp ecoli and you dont want to come down with a UTI. If after anal he then has vaginal then you would be at risk also.
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Hi Ugly, Did you pick that name, wow.
OK anal sex, is ok some women do prefer it to straight sex? as they say different strokes for different folks, that's life.
Now you can find some real good information if you google Dodson and ross, if you look down the left hand side its there, its that simple, lots of info, from all sorts of women, and info from DR Betty Dodson, plus you can read about lots of other stuff, some women call it back door fun.
Just enjoy yourself.
Good Luck
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1696489 tn?1370821974
There is no reason for it to be unsafe, as long as you are healthy enough for sex.  Use lots of lube, a condom, and take it VERY slowly.  It won't take you long to decide if you like it or not.  I'm a 'not' person, but not for any reason other than I simply don't enjoy it.  However an equal amount of people like it.  Blessings - Blu
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Yes, it's perfectly safe if you do it right, regardless of age.  You will need lube, in large quantities.  Don't even think about going without lube.  Condoms are also good for cleanup purposes.  You should work up to having something in your anus, because otherwise it will hurt.  Try with lube and a gloved finger, or get an anal training kit from a sex store or online.  You also need to go slowly to give time to adjust.  There's also something called the "anal wink", which is when you first try to insert something, the inner sphincter automatically contracts for a second before relaxing enough to let things in.  If you try to just force things in, it won't go well.

You can find plenty of guides to safe anal sex on the internet.  Have fun!
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