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whats the righ size?

my wife and I have been married 10 years with two children.when we have sex sometimes I cant really feel any friction. I almost always have to rub her clit to make her ***, she says I feel good inside her but I think she is just tryn not to hurt my selfasteam, but its to late for that. My penis length is just over 5" and the girth on my head is almost 5". Does this seem to small. are their any other women out there with aman thats this size? and do you find that he satisfys you completly?
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I'm almost 7 inch and some girls complain that it goes too deep and hurts the cervix, so I have to worry about it. Everyone is different and likes different things.

Only one girl I've been with has been able to orgasm just from penetration, and I'm sure she could do that with anyone; it has nothing to do with me.  90% need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, so that's completely normal.

If your wife wants the sensation of something bigger, why not buy a toy?  :)  Then you could do other clitoral things at the same time and make her crazy...
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I'm almost 7 inch and some girls complain that it goes too deep and hurts the cervix, so I have to worry about it. Everyone is different and likes different things.

Only one girl I've been with has been able to orgasm just from penetration, and I'm sure she could do that with anyone; it has nothing to do with me.  90% need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, so that's completely normal.

If your wife wants the sensation of something bigger, why not buy a toy?  :)  Then you could do other clitoral things at the same time and make her crazy...
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that would be a good size.. my boyfriend is over 8" and its far to large for me..
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Most women can not orgasm with penetration alone. It generally take clitoial stimulation as well. This has nothing to do with your size, it is just how a woman's body responds to sexual stimulation.
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I have over 6 inch  But that hurt my women some time...If i am on top...  So you are fine..5 inch is not samll..
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i agree with Vance
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That is a very normal size for a penis, I am sure she is satisfied. Having one too big like you see in porn is not as good as it looks. I knew a women who said some guy she was with was very large didn't give me details but larger than I am and I am just above average. She broke up with him after they had sex the 2nd time because it hurt too much.
And rubbing her clit to give her satisfaction is very normal to do and to let you know women get most stimulated by the clit. Why not try giving her oral instead of just rubbing?

Don't worry about your penis size, most women don't and if you already have 2 kids I am sure she is happy with your performance or else she would have said something or left you by now.
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