Aa
Lost best girl because of Porn and Strange Fetish
I feel completely horrible. I've lost several girlfriends because of watching porn and masturbation. When I leave it alone I can have a normal sexual relationship. When I watch it I almost immediately start having ED problems. In the summer of 2009 I met the girl of my dreams,a beautiful girl who's fun loving and exciting to be around. She knew about my problem and actually worked with me. all she asked for was for me to be honest with her. I was honest with her about watching porn but not about what kind of porn. I was just going to try to stop it on my own.
Well I ended up losing her because of the ED problems. I desparatly want her back but I have to fix my problem first. For some reason I only get turned on by watching extreme fetish , more specifically Oral until gagging. I think there's something wrong with me. Should i go to a counselor or something because I think there's something wrong?
Well I ended up losing her because of the ED problems. I desparatly want her back but I have to fix my problem first. For some reason I only get turned on by watching extreme fetish , more specifically Oral until gagging. I think there's something wrong with me. Should i go to a counselor or something because I think there's something wrong?
I would not say that there is something wrong with you, but there is something wrong with the behavior. What exactly is ED? Sexual addictions are more common than you may think; people just do not talk about them often. And you are right, you have to get rid of this addiction before you can fix your relationship...and being completely open and honest with someone you love and trust will make it easier to overcome your addiction. And talking to a counselor probably is not a bad idea....cannot do any harm to get some extra help :) Hope all works out for the best!
Certinally porn can become addictive and often just like with drugs and alcohol people need help overcomming their addictions. You have taken a big step in recognizing that your addiction has adversly effected your life and that you want to change it. This will help you so much. There is nothing wrong with you. You just need to learn tools to help you cope with temptation and addiction. Good luck!
Have an Answer?
You are reading content posted in the Sexual Health Community
Millions of people are diagnosed with STDs in the U.S. each year.
STDs can't be transmitted by casual contact, like hugging or touching.
Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex.
Discharge often isn't normal, and could mean an infection or an STD.
STDs aren't transmitted through clothing. Fabric is a germ barrier.
Normal vaginal discharge varies in color, smell, texture and amount.
