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My husband cums so quickly
Ok so my husband and I have been married for almost 3 years now and we have sex pretty regularly. Well, he's never been able to go longer than 10 minutes (No stopping) without reaching climax. Any tips on how to make him last longer? Are there any medicines he can take to help? Hes had this problem his whole life...
Hi,
It sounds like your husband might be dealing with a sensitivity issue, which isn't uncommon for men. There are ways that you can try to extend your love making sessions by making small changes to your sexual repertoire. Unless you've already tried this, I suggest having your husband use a condom during the first few minutes of intercourse; climax control condoms (Trojan) can help decrease male hypersensitivity, or he can always use the regular condoms if he doesn't like the effects of the climax control. Once you've enjoyed your time together with the condom on, he then can take it off for the grand finale climax. Another idea to add, is the start-stop method; right before he feels like he's reaching his climax during intercourse, he can stop and switch back to foreplay with you for a few minutes (or longer), then continue on with love making. Personally, I think it makes for better, more passionate sex if the woman reaches climax first, before intercourse even begins. This takes some practice, so both of you will need to be patient with each other, but it's definitely worth trying :)
Best Wishes!
It sounds like your husband might be dealing with a sensitivity issue, which isn't uncommon for men. There are ways that you can try to extend your love making sessions by making small changes to your sexual repertoire. Unless you've already tried this, I suggest having your husband use a condom during the first few minutes of intercourse; climax control condoms (Trojan) can help decrease male hypersensitivity, or he can always use the regular condoms if he doesn't like the effects of the climax control. Once you've enjoyed your time together with the condom on, he then can take it off for the grand finale climax. Another idea to add, is the start-stop method; right before he feels like he's reaching his climax during intercourse, he can stop and switch back to foreplay with you for a few minutes (or longer), then continue on with love making. Personally, I think it makes for better, more passionate sex if the woman reaches climax first, before intercourse even begins. This takes some practice, so both of you will need to be patient with each other, but it's definitely worth trying :)
Best Wishes!
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I agree with her climaxing before even start having sex if he can learn your body your sensitive spots he can have you orgasm just by touching you the way you love and kissing the sweet spots my girlfriend loves the way I touch every inch of here body turns her on mentally making her more sensitive and so a little more foreplay and she's there so every min of actual sex is at its highest point for her it helps me last longer seeing and hearing her and how I stimulate her giving me confidence and distracting me from ejaculating to prolong the pleasure
Marvel1198: The thing is, my husband i think has watched too much porn in his life and that where he learned his sexual habits. Well, its pretty obvious in like 99.9% of porn that its all about male climax. The woman is RARELY made to feel special or to climax and reach orgasm...
clement4now: thanks for the tips! Ill definitely have to figure out a way to work them in!
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10 minutes- intercourse is enough for a female to reach orgasm. Have a prolonged foreplay and excited sexually so that you reach orgasm . you may Google Female Deer Exercise. which is good for sexual stamina. you may also do kegel exercise. Does he reach orgasm in 10 minutes. Does he ejacualte? Ten minutes is a good time.You will be more sensitive if you do female deer exercise.Do kegel as well. you may ask your husband to do Male Deer Exercise.
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