My penis leaks clear fluid when Im with my girl

[Michel2000]

Hello, I am propably the sadest guy on earth..

Whenever I am with my girlfriend, my penis leaks so much clear fluid so I dont even dare to take my pants of to get a headjob.

I am so ashamed. Sometimes when she's been touching my pants, they've been soaked and now with time I've noticed my erection has only gotten weaker and weaker by each year that goes by. My memory has also gotten very bad..

Can anyone please tell me how I can stop making this clear fluid come so much and how I can get back my hard erections? I am willing to go trough almost anything.

[steph0607]

That clear fluid is completely normal...I'm guessing you have are a virgin or have not had a lot of experience...this fluid is known as precum...your partner will not be grossed out by this as long as she knows its normal..maybe you are getting used to whatever it is that you and your partner are doing together that it just doesn't get you that excited anymore and that why you can't get erect..

[Michel2000]

no, that's not it lol. It's not like I'm married so that I wont get turned on by my girl.

She's HOT and there's something wrong with me. I want a solution I dont want to know its normal. I need something to solve it now, my errections have gotten softer lately and I want that fluid decreased so its almost gone :S

[Michel2000]

can somebody please help me??

[rls27]

Have you been masturbating a lot? Over stimulation may lead to slightly softer erections. The longer you go without it the harder and longer it will stay erect. As for the pre-ejaculate, it's normal. The more you have sex and get used to your partner the less of a concern it will be. I'm guessing she has you all heated up long before you actually get to have sex.

[Bobcat45]

So if I stopped masturbating so much will i stop leaking? Or do I have to get it over with and have sex to stop it? ?

[bubveb]

Dude, girls like the precum. Don't worry about it. Your erections are suffering because you're worried about it. Trust me. I make a LOT of precum and every single girl I've been with LOVED it. Not to be too graphic about it but when they discover my underwear soaking wet they get even more turned on. It's normal.  

[n17kapoor]

Sir, I'm 30+ and I've the same problem. I don't know if I've done excessively but yes I was a big boozer. Now I've left it from couple of months. Do we have some medicine to resolve this concern. I'm too much worried. I get leakage even while I'm talking to a girl. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!  IT'S REALLY EMBARRASSING

[montyji]

Dear you don't need to take any medicine.. but you should set up your mind, your thinking about woman.. just change your routine don't get always free.. get up early in the morning and go for walk and get fresh oxizen in your brain.. I'm not a doctor but I have lots of sexual experience

[oldman_logan]

Judging by the fact that you posted this in 2011, I should say I am a tad late. :D I hope the issue has been resolved in your case. But I will reply anyway, just in case you have the issue. The pre-*** is totally normal. It is similar to the arousal state of a woman in which she gets all wet down there. Most men just get hard and pre-*** when they are super aroused. But some people also drip with pre-*** and that even turns on certain women just coz it is a visible sign on how much he wants her. So this is totally normal and I think your girl would understand that. Different bodies react differently to sex and stimulus. So don't judge yourself for it. And also, I think since u find her to be very hot, you are ultra excited and you just flood pre-***.

About your erections, it could be purely psychological coz of your worry about this pre-*** flooding you up. When you guys are at it, you are probably more worked up about pre-*** than focusing on making love or foreplay. This can lead to weak erections. So remember to free your mind, concentrate on enjoying the experience you get from what you both do to each other. It is important to accept one's body and self as it is to be confident with your partner. My girl finds sticky pre-*** to be a real turn on coz it just shows i want her and I'm all excited and sensual. Work on your communication if you are still facing this issue and discuss it with her or whoever you are seeing now. Masturbate less and save it for the real action so you will  be harder and the erection will not vain.

And hopefully u have sorted this problem already back in 2011 otherwise good luck. Fingers crossed! :D

[AShygirl]

Hey, that fluid is a natural lubrication in preparation for intercourse. Be glad that you are producing it. People are telling you it's normal because it is. You shouldn't be bothered by it because IT IS NORMAL. How can normal be bothering?!?

[glamdring]

Normal can easily worry folks if they have never been told by someone they trust that it is normal.

[A_Person1234]

Absolutely Normal

Nothing To Worry About