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I am 25 years of age , i have started having sex six months ago , i used to masturbate since i was 13 but when i reached 15 , i came to know the side effects of masturbating and i reduced it allot but could not be able to stop it , when i had sex first time , i ejaculated abruptly after inserting , when i decided to did it second time , i ejaculated in condo* , i reached the climax many times when she is on me during romance , i also started doing start and stop method but did not realized any change(although i did it four to five times) , now i use numb creams to avoid premature ejaculation(p.e) but really want to get rid of that problem , i feel that i my body is adjusted for p.e which has become too difficult for me to unlearn, i am really concerned for my future sexual life and committed to get rid of that problem , if someone had same kind of problem and recovered , please help me !!!! please tell me should i look for consulting the urologist ..
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Dude, you just started having sex six months ago. It is like letting a kid in a candy shop for the first time. They will go nuts at first. You just need to learn how to relax. As they say, practice makes perfect.
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If one is using numbness ointment, one should apply minimum on glans only.If there is a premature ejaculation, wait form half an hour before you attempt again. Usually it takes half an hour to get rejuvenate.Getting over excited is the reason for early ejaculation. Deep and slow abdominal breathing will help you to divert your mind and keep the erection for longer period.When you are on the verge of ejaculation, take deep and slow abdominal breathing. Practice this type of breathing for few days. Google, Abdominal breathing.There are many breathing exercises to control your sexual urge. Ujjai pranayam is one of the many.
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i have felt that during sex or even masturbation my penis acts so sensitively(specially during sex) and reach climax in just 8 to 10 seconds, after trying start and stop and squeezing method (for about 12 days , one or twice a day and about 15 minutes every time) , although i took control over how to come back before reaching ejaculation , tried to be relax and diverted my attention to somewhere else , i could not be able to take longer my ejaculation process , i don't think it is still a psychological problem , is there any Permanent medicinal treatment for such kind of problems ???
i have felt that during sex or even masturbation my penis acts so sensitively(specially during sex) and reach climax in just 8 to 10 seconds, after trying start and stop and squeezing method (for about 12 days , one or twice a day and about 15 minutes every time) , although i took control over how to come back before reaching ejaculation , tried to be relax and diverted my attention to somewhere else , i could not be able to take longer my ejaculation process , i don't think it is still a psychological problem , is there any Permanent medicinal treatment for such kind of problems ???
What you need to do, is focus more on your partner and less on your penis. This will give you more control. Frequent focus on your penis will activate the ejaculation program. This includes worrying about your penis and being focused on the feelings in your penis.
Your conscious mind can only focus on one thing at a time - therefore, it is essential that you focus on the mechanics of attending to your partner's needs.
Your conscious mind can only focus on one thing at a time - therefore, it is essential that you focus on the mechanics of attending to your partner's needs.
Yeah, but still. Just relax and enjoy it. You will slow down and it will be good. I was the same way as a teenager.
may be u r right but after having sex 10 to 15 times , i did not find any improvement..
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