Need help about masturbating?

[HimitsuDesuXx]

I am of a reasonable age, been masturbating (somewhat) for years... but the problem is that I can't orgasm.

I have always come really close to an orgasm, but have always given up because of over stimulation in a sense. I feel really awkward posting this seeing as so many others have posted similar questions, but the reason why I am posting my story is because I'm a virgin. I have never been sexually active with another person.

What should I do. AND also, a vibrator isn't an option for me. I look like a little kid, and I'd have to show an ID and I would feel so humiliated. Especially since I don't really have friends to go shopping with, and the only other option would be my mom but that is ... I'm not even going there. Anyway, so vibrator is not an option.

Help please?

[Dalubaba]

Clitoris is most sensitive organ. Circulating fingers around it should give reasonably good sensation to reach orgasm.Pelvic floor exercise is a good technique to vitalize sexual organs. This is done by sucking in and up the perineum up while inhaling. and then relaxing.One can do swell belly simultaneously. This combo will massage abdominal organs from upside towards downward and from downward to up word.This will invigorate your sexual system. Another effective exercise is Female deer exercise and another one is kegel exercise. Google all these phrases to get the relevant websites..

[rhi2222]

I feel ya hunny I'm 10 yrs older then u and its crazy my sex is crazy but me myself have never even used A toy or tried a toy .. N I cant do it myself also .. People look at me like I'm crazy but I justcant do it.. I've came close solo many times but its like impossible but u read that it gets closer and closer with age n I've realized that its much. Closer then when I wad 18 but I really am looking 4ward to that day that I can do it when my man doesn't feel like it.. Feel ya hubby b patient it will come for us Lol hopefully :)

[HimitsuDesuXx]

I am 18, however... I can't drive... x n x... People always assume I am like... 12 or something, so it is quite embarassing

[RockRose]

If you can't orgasm,  it's a mistake to get a vibrator and train your body to only orgasm with that extreme amount of stimulation.  

I don't know why you are having trouble,  but it sounds like you purposely stop before you orgasm.  That might be worth looking in to.

[Londres70]

What is "of reasonable age?"  

You state you are 18, so if you really are 18 you should be able to purchase this WITHOUT needing mother or father to tag along.

Try posting in the Sexual Health Forums.