I get the exact same orgasm sensation with the cold water on the feet/legs. I've had it since I hit puberty, I'm now almost 60 years old and it still happens. I thought I was the only oddball with this strange way to orgasm, thank goodness there are others out there having the icy feet bliss with me! :-)
Hi Curious, Woman and orgasms, comes in differant ways, My wife from back scratching for one, read about a woman who had them by dunking her self in freezing water, I think if read about the web you would not be the odd one out there.
Good Luck
The medication that has this effect is Clomipramine (Anafranil). It might be interesting to google, in case the explanation for why the drug does this might shed any light on why cold water has this effect on you.
Well, lucky you. There is a medication (can't remember which) that when people took it, if they sneezed they would orgasm. It wasn't made for that of course, and they were very sheepish when they would ask for their refills. I mention this because it is an interesting other example of how the body is connected in ways we don't necessarily suspect until the exciting moment happens.
It might be that something about the blood pressure or the vascularity of the region could be working for you; getting your extremities cold can bring a compression of the blood vessels up the legs, blocking the blood coming down the legs a bit, which would help the blood pool in the vaginal region.
I do envy you, it sets up the notion of interesting sexual encounters by the side of a pool, or with a bucket of ice nearby -- your man will never have to wonder if you are satisfied.
I have a feeling no one will be able to explain ......