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Orgasm problems...

Hi,
So I have this problem with me and orgasms. I can bring myself to orgasm but no guy has ever been able to do it for me...
Just letting u guys know, I have only done anal sex and oral sex... (no vaginal yet)
And I am pretty sure I won't be able to orgasm through penetration....
So, as I was saying, no guy I have ever been with has been able to bring me to orgasm unless I help them... It frustrates me!
I masturbate at least once a day, everyday, and I just want to know if it's just me or something is wrong...
And the only way I can bring myself to orgasm is if I cramp and strain my legs (painful) and masturbate fast and hard...
I want to know if it is because I do it everyday, and I am makin it harder or if guys can't do it for me, or there is a serious problem here... Please help :(
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1340994 tn?1374193977
You'll get better at it as you get older.  Different partners bring different skills.  You will learn to relax more while trying new things.  You are very young to expect to have the details figured out.  Just relax and don't be so goal-oriented and you will figure it out when you aren't expecting it.  
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139792 tn?1498585650
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Vagina and clitoris are important organs to help you to reach orgasm. Your anal zone may be less erotic. For oral sex  you need an expert.In taoist yoga, there is tongue-  technique. There are 4 exercises. If a person knows these tongue exercises, can do an oral sex.
I am sure if you do vaginal intercourse, allowing your partner to rub your clitoris with his dorsal part of penis. You may also do female deer exercise to for to strengthen your libido.Google the word 'Female deer exercise'.
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