Also if it helps my legs often go into some form of spasm as I approach orgasm. Sometimes when my legs are shaking I can push through and orgasm, other times I blow a gasket as described above! As an experiment I tried the same type of arousal after taking a beta blocker and the problem didn't arise.
I lose my erection before I ejaculate due to the panic attack type symptoms I get. It has been happening on and off for several years now but it is annoying as it is linked to when I am most aroused.
So do you lose your erection after you ejaculate from the big sweat and heart racing issues . .. if so-- sounds normal when you get to the point of ejaculation from a climax..
In sexual arousal mental complainant is always associated. You may try a forceful exhalation, compressing your abdomen and let inhalation be automatic. Take 6 or 7 breaths. It is likely that you may calm down sexually. However, consulting doctor in such a case is safer as suggested by remar.Usually slow and deep abdominal breathing brings down all types of emotions. This is being used to delay ejaculation while ding intercourse..You may Goofle abdominal breathing to know full details. This breathing has many advantages.
Does your Dr say you're healthy? If so, this can be completely normal. If this is something new and you have'nt seen your Dr I recommend you do that, just to be safe.