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Why does a girl not feel anything while having sex?? is it because she is having some problem??
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Make her feel comfortable about her body. I had problems witho orgasms my hole life and i am 34. Have some fun, for-play, ask her what she likes. Caress her breasts.  The main thing to a healthy sex life is communicate with each othe.  MMaybe dim light too
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139792 tn?1498585650
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The above post gives wonderful details for male as well as female. It is a mini -sex-encyclopedia.The details promted me to coin this phrase. I mean.

I have always believed that vagina which is deep, but eroticlly sensitive up to two inches. That is why even a person having two inch erect penis can successfully bring about orgasm to a woman provided he Is doing other things well.Other inrormation is about G point. which is one and half inch inside the vagina at a 10o'clock position importunately, Make cab withdraw his penis to this place while resting.This gives more intimacy.
If male kegels a woman , the movement male organ is vertical, where has general movement is forward and backward on a horizontal plane. .movement caused by kegel movement is different and a different pleasing sensations.
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Women certainly do feel things during sex. We can feel a lot more then men do in fact. We can orgasm in several ways and generally have much higher stamina than men do.
There may have been a bunch of things you were doing wrong, or maybe she just hasn't learned how to orgasm through penetration yet! Make sure to use lots and lots of lube, it feels better for a girl. If it isn't passionate or exciting, women just get bored and won't feel. We need emotional excitement! Literally, as soon as I get "turned off" I won't feel anything and penetration just feels annoying, and sort of numb. Thankfully, I get turned on very, very easily, but it sounds like your girl needs to find ways to turn herself on and that you need to help her with that. No offence, but a lot of men are not really good at sex. They get in their minds that they are because they have sex with some girls that pretend to orgasm and don't tell them the truth. Guys forget that passion is needed. Boring sex is dull! You wouldn't want to be with a girl who just lays there and remains silent, yet that's what a lot of guys do! Don't be boring during sex. Make sure to moan, and let her know that she is pleasing you, make eye contact, be romantic, talk dirty, make her submit to you, let her dominate you, do whatever it is that excites her.

A clitoral orgasm can last many hours, but men usually don't want to take the time to please a woman for that long.
A penetration orgasm can give many different types of orgasm. Women can have multiple orgasms, while a man just has one type of orgasm and that usually only lasts for a very short time. The male endurance usually lasts for a short time, which is usually a factor that leads to a woman not being satisifed.

They say that the clitoris alone holds the same amount of nerve endings as a man's penis. If anything, it is the female orgasm closest to a man's. The clitoris likes to be sucked just like a penis. Unfortunately most men don't realize this and instead copy porn which is a mistake, or jab at it, and are too aggressive with it. It is very sensitive. You woudn't want giant fingernails poking at the tip of your penis, so why would she. The clitoris is exactly like a minature penis, it likes to be jacked off too.

And then when it comes to penetration, she expects a man to please her when she hasn't taken the time to masturbate and figure out how to please herself.

Penetration orgasms are the best. Deep penetration is my personal fave.
A lot of people don't like hearing this but if the penis does not fit her, it's not going to feel good for her. If the penis is too short for her, she will never orgasm from deep penetration, with the penis against the cervix. If it's too long, it can actually hurt her cervix and feel very uncomfortable, whereas some women prefer a little extra because cervix pain can also give you a pretty powerful orgasm.
People are literally like puzzle peices, they have to fit properly. You can make do but sex will be truly amazing if you actually fit properly.
Women who try to say otherwise probably have never had really amazing sex. The majority of women probably average around 6-7 inches in vaginal length, the same as guys. Apparently.


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139792 tn?1498585650
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Sexually satiated person may not feel to have sex. But such cases are rare. Vagina is elastic. After some time it restores its size almost to original shape and size. Kegel exercises can help to tighten the muscles of vagina.If pc muscle is not strong, kegel exercises can help.
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139792 tn?1498585650
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There can be many causes why a girl does not enjoy. If new to the sex, she may be afraid and she under tension. or she is feeling guilty. She may have some medical problem. Or may be the male has done a proper job,or the male is having problem like,PE, or ED. Or he is not doing proper fore play. Faults can be from both the sides.Your question is general.I hope this reply serves your purpose.
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That or some ppl have had sex so much there bigger on the inside n the penis might not make them feel anything bc they are not big enuff. Try rubbing her c lit. While having sex. So woman don't get off wit just a c ock n them
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