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Sexual Problem?

My boyfriend and I have been together for a while and about halfway into our relationship when I was finally comfortable we started getting sexual with each other. We had sex about 5 times, and each time he seemed less and less into it. Now, it's been 6 months since we've done anything. I've tried to start stuff but at first he said no because he wanted to become closer with God, which I understood. Now, it's just because absolutely NOTHING turns him on. I've tried outfits, sexual inuendos, touching him, having him touch me, but nothing. He's been really stressed lately, lots of headaches. But nothing bad enough to keep him for having ANYTHING turn him on. Personally I think he has a chemical imbalance but he doesn't want to see a doctor about it or anything. But I'm seriously suffering from it. He doesnt touch my body, say i'm sexy or anything. Nothing interests him. Do you guys have any ideas?
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He says the same things over and over.  He thinks it smells funny, his "religious beliefs" which I'm coming to think is BS cause of how he acts sometimes.
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What is so embarrasing about going to a Dr for stress and headaches?

I don't know whatelse to suggest then, you would have to talk with him and see why he doesn't want to have sex.
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Our relationship is fine other than this one issue. I could hardly say he isn't interested in me anymore. Besides sexual relations we're best friends, and he does everything he can to make me happy (besides this).

He just doesn't want to be embarrassed at the doctor, that's why I think he wont go.
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Break up with him, it sounds like he is not interested in you anymore. Or maybe he wants to wait until he is married to have sex again. You would have to talk to him about it.

His stress and headaches are connected and he needs to lower his stress, if he refuses to see a Dr for help then that is his choice but you should try to get him to see one.
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