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Sexual fantasy
Is it normal to have sexual fantasy in third person without you in them? I was abuse as a kid and have a hard time putting myself in them. I also have a hard time seeing a guy in it and only fantasy with 2 women. I don't do it for a perverted reasons but only because women don't trigger me and is the only way I can fantasy about sex without bothering me. If I try to put myself my mind jump to a guy even with the fact I don't like men.
All sexual fantasies which are not about harming others (e.g. child abuse) should be considered normal. Please see a psychotherapist about your history of abuse
I think it is pretty normal to fantasize about a sexual scenario not involving oneself in it. While I cannot talk from the perspective of sexual abuse, i thin k it sounds alright generally speaking too, so it should be ok in your case too.
I can understand about the trigger part, but maybe some therapy might help you?
I can understand about the trigger part, but maybe some therapy might help you?
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