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She's too tight.. can we make it work?

well I've been messing with this arab chick... last night with her parents being gone we got our oppurtunity to do our thing.. we did it right.. cuddled, played a bit. I performed oral on her to get some juices flowing which she enjoyed, quite loudly I might add :D
point is, I could only fit one finger, and two hurt her after a few seconds. she'd never been with a bigger guy, so she was curious, excited and nervous but literally begging. we got protected and I preceded to try parking my limo in her tool shed. it worked about halfsies and was a real clench. great for me, but she was full of discomfort and after a few minutes submitted to her pain and asked kindly I stop, so I did. we cuddled and laid there, her being satisfied from before that and me not. this doesn't displease me, I am generous, but today she was not up for it again because of swelling.
this is ******* kung fu action grip poon. I don't wanna give it up if I don't have to. can someone help me figure a way to please us both through penetration without hurting her?

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where did you find the name siqbudz cause its been one i use on multiple acounts everywhere for multiple years
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I did reply to this before.. guess it didn't post. good tips guys, but it just wasn't working out. it's okay, it wasn't a serious relationship and I'm a teen so I'm in the OK field. dating a columbian one now, things should be alright. thanks for the tips everyone, but most were long term solutions that lovers make, and we're just friends that were bored. that and teenage ignorance of being opened up and losing elasticity for the rest of her life. dumb people these days.. I'm an aspiring writer so when I write personal notes I tend to overextend my sentences. that's why it was put such a funny way. p.s. she has diabetes and one of those pumps. I'm an avid reader and when this all happened read a lot. factors that may have effected this are her meds, bipolar disorder which I personally think she has and being sexually assaulted at a young age, which she told me about. mental problems. her vagina works, but her mind works too fast. read my works, guys. I'm young now, but prodigal. look out for Shiloh, a Wolves Tale of the Strange and 'The Man on the Shore'
temp names, but both promising. email ***@**** if ypur interested.
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ask her what meds she is on. Many have side effects like low libido. It does work to get off of meds. I am so wet it ain't funny. Birth control has the low libido effect. Psych drugs have the same effect. try not to be on a time schedule. keep lubricating even if it is the only thing you do. Soon she will want you. Be careful! Don't get her in trouble with her parents over having sex with you. Some kill their daughters or wives if they have had premarital sex.
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Alright siqbudz, this was the same situation for me roughly a year ago with my current girlfriend. What you should do is focus on getting fingers inside without it hurting, this will slowly loosen her up. If you don't want it to hurt her, do this alot and eventually the pain will go away. Also, there is no such thing as too much lubrication.
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Sorry, I just have to say that was a funny way to put things
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I has a similar issue but I was on the retrieving end. Patience and willingness on both your parts. Give her time to heal, and just take it slow. It can be very very painful while stretching, so even though it may feel great for you, make sure to give lots of emotional support to her, because it's not feeling great for her.

She'll stretch, slowly but surely. That's how babies are born.

Best of luck
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