Small hymen

[DiYoung]

I have a small hymen and my boyfriend is too "big". I do not want to have sex before marriage, but he is worried about our sexual compatibility first before we get married. I am 50 and a virgin. How does one stretch the hymen?

[NOHARD]

love making and sex is a big issue in any marriage, dont ever under estimate the power of love, get this part of your relationship going and beleave the rest is easy, at the end of the day if you really love your man, yes get into bed.
It seems to me that you may be worried over nothing, are you afraid of sex and love making if so just let him lead the way and put your trust in him if you really love him.
Look now be married for over forty years and just got over ED, so we are now back in the saddle again 4/5 times a week and now in our 60s, so yes love making is a big part.
Do hope this has helped and eased your mind.
Good Luck

[jefelex]

I wouldn't worry about it - if he is worried about sexual compatibility with you because you are virgin, then should you ask yourself what does this guy really want, and does he understand the virtues of marriage? and the commitment involved?

Your hymen will stretch and break with normal intercourse, and all will be well!