Where is my climax going?

[hicarbon]

When I masturbate or have sexual intercourse I am one of those that holds their breath as soon as an orgasm begins (I have noticed that I have held it for quite some time and need to take a quick breath). One thing that I have noticed has been happening a lot lately is that when I feel that I am beginning to orgasm and reach my climax (where I would ejaculate) it feels as though the climax goes back down and I do not feel the orgasm nearly as much anymore. I then start the process all over again.

I do not take any medications which would decrease my sex drive (ie: anti-depressants and such) and the only pill I take is a vitamin B9 and multi-vitamin. Could this possibly be caused by having an unhealthy diet (I definitely don't eat properly) or lack of exercise (I have not been exercising at all for the past year)? Is this normal? Can it be fixed? It is causing serious problems with my girlfriend and I as she feels as though I am not sexually attracted to her because it seems as though I have to "try" to climax with her.

[hicarbon]

Sorry for the confusion. Yes, I do finally climax and ejaculate. I know what multiple orgasms are and would know if that were happening, this is not the case.

[ainttoshabby]

so are you cuming or not?? its kinda confusing, do you have a hard time getting it up?? if you are cuming, and can keep going and *** again, your having multiple orgasims, which how can you complain, and i mean hey girls usually take more to climax then men, and you can give her multiple orgasims, and if you keep thinking about it then automaticly its gonna not happen, you need to loose control and let the animal inside take over