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Why am I unable to *** when my girlfriend pleasures me?

So like the title says, for some reason my girlfriend pleasuring me never actually makes me finish, I am a guy and when she blows me it feels great, but I can't ejaculate and she is starting to feel like it's her fault but I keep telling her it's not.

I used to masturbate 4 times a week but stopped about a month ago and now my only source of pleasure is from my girlfriend.

Okay so now what I think the weirdest part of it all is about a week ago when she first blew me I actually did finish, but that was literally the only time I've ever finished with her, we tried again 2 days later and nothing tried again the following day and I had to finish myself. I read somewhere that it may be from a dependacy on certain sensations from masturbation but how would I fix that.

Does anybody know what's wrong, any help would be great
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Avoid masturbation as you are doing.  Let her experiment in her oral techniques so that hopefully she will hit upon the right feeling for you.  As examples:  slow; fast; soft touch; strong sucking; holding your testicles; fingering your anus; and so on.  
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