Why is it so hard to climax with my husband

[lostfeeling]

I have been married for 4 years in August. I have had a hard time having an orgasm with my husband, can you tell me if this sounnd like  a mental or physical problem?

[mona19]

IT COULD BE THAT YOU MAYBE NOT BE A PHYSICALLY ATTRACTED TO HIM AS YOU WERE BEFORE...I HAD TO FAKE A FEW BEFORE WITH AN EX BF ITS NOT FUN..THEY THINK THERE DOING THE RIGHT THINGS TO PLEASE YOU..BUT YOUR NOT FEELING ANYTHING..CHECK WITH A DOCTOR....

[ashleigh91]

Hey,

Im 17, and with my ex of 1 and 1/2 years, i could never have an orgasm and had to fake it every time.

I know i can have an orgasm because ive had many many on my own.

I could get so close with my ex but i would never orgasm and i felt terrible.
Your not alone.

But may i ask, have you had an orgasm befor (dont think i sound stupid since i kow many of my close freinds in their 30's whove only just had their first orgasm)?

Like can u give urself an orgasim?

Then if so it migth be mentlaly, but i dont kow, but i experiencing same thing.
and oce u get into the line of fakign it gets impossible to get out of.

its just so hard not to when u can see the dissapointmenton their faces.
and then they loose all confidence.

xx