Why??

[Kryssy22]

Hello I am a 22 year old female I have had about 10 sexual partners in my life but I never felt myself enjoying it! I listen to my friends tell me how great their sex life is I just don't understand why I don't have feeling in my vigina when  having intercourse. I never had an orgasm with a male only when I masturbate. Is there something wrong with me?

[Dalubaba]

Male can rub clitoris, if he leans on female while on up position. He can rub the dorsal part of his penis on clitoris.Female on up position cna contol the rubbin of clitoris as per needs.
while taking rest during intercourse, man cn withdraw his penis keeping little more than half an inch inside the vagina.The head of the penis is in touch of the G-spot. Female can grip the head by Gband area. This grip gives pleasure to both the partners. Learn about kegel exercises. It is meant for both.eaxh can kegel each other alternatively.When man kegels, his penis moves vertically, giving newer sensations. When women kegels, she compresses penis with strong spasm. kegel help to increase sexual vigour. Kegel exercises are recommended by doctors to strengthen pelvic muscles. These exercises are easy and can be done anywhere and any time. search the websites.

[iliana189]

I totally agree with what the two other members have said. At the beggining of my sex life i used to feel the same way you do until i finally found the right sex partner who knew how to turn me on and understood that me reaching a climax was as important as he reaching climax aswell. There are some sexual possitions that allow you to masturate easily during penetration. For example, spoon possition. Lift your upper leg a bit while your partner penetrates you and play with yourself. Also when you are on top, lean back and ask your partner to play with your clitt or do it yourelf. There are many more ways to achieve clitoral orgasm during intercourse and you just have to experiment with your partner till you find which positions work best for you. Don't get all stressed up about "getting there" just relax and enjoy :)

[MissingLink]

ditto to above PLUS

Orgasm/Stimulation through penetration is more the exception than the rule. the most common form of effective stimulation is clitoral (hence masturbating works for you).

There are some postions (such as being on top) that allow you to stimulate your clitoris with the shaft of his penis during sex. You just need to figure out what works for you. Don't be afraid to give some direction to them on how to either manually or orally stimulate you. You would be suprised how many guys actually appreciate it as they want to get it right!

most of all... relax... and have fun!

[AnnieBrooke]

Nothing is wrong with you if you can have an orgasm (even if it is just when you masturbate).  It's probably that your lovers have not known how to turn you on (which is not surprising if you don't know either and cannot direct them) and also you are probably nervous or worried at some level and that is a big turn-off.  Every woman has to learn what it is in her own body that is the right way or right spot for an orgasm.  A patient lover will enjoy the exploration with her.  Comparing yourself to your friends (who might or might not be having the great experiences they say they are) will only make you anxious about performance in bed, which tends to shut down enjoyment.  

Try to find a lover who makes you laugh, with whom you feel relaxed, and not burdened down, and tell him that you aren't sure what works for you but would like to find out, and go from there.  If he is kind and exploratory and likes the journey not just the finish line, you two should have a good time as you piece it all together.