i'm new to this forum and have an embarrassing question. And YES, this is a true concern of mine. i'm a 49 year old man and my wife is 47, we have been married for 29 years. and happy for the most part, i did have an affair about 7 years ago, whick she foregave me for,( at least thats what she says), i question is lately she in bed when she scoots down to give me oral, she always goes lower down. and puts her tongue in my rear (for lack of a better word), i am kinda old fashioned, and the first time she did it, it took me by surprise. but it did feel good, which kinda made me worry at first. the problem is this really turns her on. its seems the more she does it, the more she gets turn on until she gets herself off while doing this to me. my question is i dont understand how a woman can get turned on by doing this? cause im not doing anything to her while she is doing this.....Is this Normal? do women get turned on while they are licking a man down there. because sometimes she doesnt even touch my penis. i have to masterbate myself while she is tonging me........i know i shouldnt complain, but thoughts run through my mind like: is she pretending to be giving oral to another women? i'm confused, because she had NEVER did that in the previous 28 years of marriage.............i'm i reading too much into this??????
Folks please this is a serious concern of mine........THIS IS NOT SOMETHING IM JUST MAKING UP.