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Hi I am a young girl from Dubai I ahve a boyfriend that I love a lot and want to have sex with but I don't want him to penetrate me vagainally becuase I don't want to lose my verginity before marrage. I have seen some porn films with anal sex and the guys penis looks big and I am afraid its going to hurt me a lot is thier a way I can prepair my self for anal sex like sertian ways and lubrications that I should use before I insert anything inside my anus? Girls who had anal experience please help me with tips. Should I let him lick my anus before sex to lubricate ? One thing I know for sure is that I will not let him do it with out a condom :)
hi i just wanna tell you that it is so bad for you to do it i think if you want to keep your verginity and feel the sex you have to make sex as touch not to let him put it inside i mean you will feel the sex and your partner too ..but anal sex will heart you a lot so dont do it at all if you want you can make sex from out side just touching i had done this with the girls who are vergin so good luck if you need any help send me but i want you not to do anal sex coz you are a human do you like to be treated like an animal.............my mail is ***@****
To: Sam and Fung
Whether religious or cultural or whatever, if vaginal sex is prohibited prior to marriage, I’m sure sodomy is prohibited as well (definitely in Islam and likely in most if not all Asian cultures as well as most other countries). I guess it's a good thing the anus doesn't have a hymen-like apparatus, too, or that would close that loophole.
I'm not trying to be judgmental or critical, just making an observation and I seriously am intrigued by the reasoning and the lack of adherence to religious or cultural beliefs while pretending to adhere to them. I supposed the persecution, mistreatment, or potential abuse by a husband who realizes you aren’t a virgin is a pretty big incentive, but how hypocritical when the same man who condemns you for not having your hymen intact may likely have had anal, oral, and even vaginal sex with other people.
Looking at it from a purely fascinated-by-the-things-people-do POV. Again...just and observation--not looking for an explanation or a defense of the practices or beliefs.
Whether religious or cultural or whatever, if vaginal sex is prohibited prior to marriage, I’m sure sodomy is prohibited as well (definitely in Islam and likely in most if not all Asian cultures as well as most other countries). I guess it's a good thing the anus doesn't have a hymen-like apparatus, too, or that would close that loophole.
I'm not trying to be judgmental or critical, just making an observation and I seriously am intrigued by the reasoning and the lack of adherence to religious or cultural beliefs while pretending to adhere to them. I supposed the persecution, mistreatment, or potential abuse by a husband who realizes you aren’t a virgin is a pretty big incentive, but how hypocritical when the same man who condemns you for not having your hymen intact may likely have had anal, oral, and even vaginal sex with other people.
Looking at it from a purely fascinated-by-the-things-people-do POV. Again...just and observation--not looking for an explanation or a defense of the practices or beliefs.
I just want to add a little. Most asian countries have the same basic culture about virginity. Girl has to be able to proof her virginity on the first night of marriage by shedding virgin blood . In some country, even husband has the right to return the wife to her family if there is no blood . This is not religion- it's culture. Most people still judged the girl's background by her virginity and it affected her future in relationship with others. .
Anal sex is a preference,but there isnt any scientific/medical evidence to say that STDs are easier with anal than with vaginal sex...please people keep it real! Some women and men alike enjoy anal sex,dont knock it until you try it!
Nanigirl is from Dubai. that means that when she is talking virginity that she is talking about maintaining the integrity of her hymen. In many cultures that is examined before marriage. In addition to which it is actually a rather beautiful thing that she is offering herself up in the way she is.
Things have to be taken in the context of the culture that the person is from. If she were wealthier perhaps she would even be trying to find surgeons in the UK who do reconstructive surgery on hymens. But for now she is taken the alternative that is allowed to her to maintain virginity under her culture and it would be small minded for us to impose the values of our culture on someone who does not share them. Her question was meant to allow her to make the venue available to her as pleasant as possible.
If your culture has something similar to WET or other thicker gel based lubes use those. Also a lube like "anal-eze" or something similar might help as well as an enema and condom. Otherwise good luck.
Things have to be taken in the context of the culture that the person is from. If she were wealthier perhaps she would even be trying to find surgeons in the UK who do reconstructive surgery on hymens. But for now she is taken the alternative that is allowed to her to maintain virginity under her culture and it would be small minded for us to impose the values of our culture on someone who does not share them. Her question was meant to allow her to make the venue available to her as pleasant as possible.
If your culture has something similar to WET or other thicker gel based lubes use those. Also a lube like "anal-eze" or something similar might help as well as an enema and condom. Otherwise good luck.
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