Don't let people make you think life ***** after marriage. Ive been with my husband for 10 years , married for 1 and sex is still great and fun. It helps to change things up to keep it exciting. Stay in a hotel, do it in a different room, try different positions, langerie or some fun toys might get you interested in sex again. It's odd that it's so sudden that you can't stand the thought....maybe get your hormones checked or a depression screening. Best of luck to you.
its happens.but its harder to him control her sexual desire
The excitement has worn off. It always happens after you get married. It's totally natural. Let him know a couple of things. One, the act of love-making will be much better if you're in the mood so if you can't do it on his time schedule, that's cool. Trust me, we want the woman who is really into it and deep down we don't want a girl who is faking it. Second, help him out. If he needs to "release", there's ways to do that for him.
You still love him, but maybe you're not sexually attractive to him anymore?