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i am thiya.25 yrs old.my health is gradually fall.because when i sleep bad dream comes and sperm out.i never masturbate ever. though my cheeks decreases and blood count decreses i am so lean.i so handsome when i 16 yrs old.but not now.during age of 16 .somebody used me thier desire. is it affect me.so tell me how solve problem.my parents scared me .can i recover me.now never think about sex.some of day i thought to attempt suicide this problem.i can't face public
please send solution m
please send solution m
Sorry to hear that you feel so low and that you were abused as a child.
You are experiencing flash backs and the traumatic experience that you suffered has not allowed you to "move on" mentally. You are clearly and understandably still traumatised by the nasty things that happened to you.
You should make an appointment to see your doctor and discuss your problem with him. I do not know if you have counsellors that you can be referred to by your doctor in your country. But you would greatly benefit from seeing a counsellor who is trained to help people in your position. They will be able to help by talking to you and helping you for your brain to be able to process the traumatic experience that you have been through.
You will never forget what happened, but by knowing techniques to help you to process your thoughts, you will be able "file" it away in your brain so that you do not get suicidal feels and flashbacks that affect you so badly now. EMDR may help you. So do speak to your doctor.
You will require a few sessions with a specialised counsellor to help you get through this.
Just remember that you must not blame yourself for what happened to you. You were a victim of sexual abuse. If you do not get on and enjoy you youth while you still have it, the perpetrators will have succeeded in ruining your life completely. Do not let that happen and get the help that you need to get through this.
I am not a trained counsellor in the field that you need help with, but have experienced flashbacks due to a dramatic nasty experience and counselling was very helpful by allowing my brain to process the experience and allow me to move on with my life.
Hope you get on OK
Best wishes.
You are experiencing flash backs and the traumatic experience that you suffered has not allowed you to "move on" mentally. You are clearly and understandably still traumatised by the nasty things that happened to you.
You should make an appointment to see your doctor and discuss your problem with him. I do not know if you have counsellors that you can be referred to by your doctor in your country. But you would greatly benefit from seeing a counsellor who is trained to help people in your position. They will be able to help by talking to you and helping you for your brain to be able to process the traumatic experience that you have been through.
You will never forget what happened, but by knowing techniques to help you to process your thoughts, you will be able "file" it away in your brain so that you do not get suicidal feels and flashbacks that affect you so badly now. EMDR may help you. So do speak to your doctor.
You will require a few sessions with a specialised counsellor to help you get through this.
Just remember that you must not blame yourself for what happened to you. You were a victim of sexual abuse. If you do not get on and enjoy you youth while you still have it, the perpetrators will have succeeded in ruining your life completely. Do not let that happen and get the help that you need to get through this.
I am not a trained counsellor in the field that you need help with, but have experienced flashbacks due to a dramatic nasty experience and counselling was very helpful by allowing my brain to process the experience and allow me to move on with my life.
Hope you get on OK
Best wishes.
Hi there -
I'm sorry you aren't feeling well.
It sounds as if you are experiencing something called nocturnal emissions. You can google this for more info, but it's something that is totally normal for men to experience. You may wake up when it's happening, or you may sleep right through it. It won't cause any problems, so if you are feeling poorly, and are having some abnormal blood results, it doesn't have anything to do with this. Please continue to work with your doctor to find a cause.
It also sounds as if someone abused you when you were 16? If that's the case, please talk to your doctor about it, and let him know what happened, so he can determine if what happened could have any affect on your health. You might want to visit our Abuse Support Community - http://www.medhelp.org/forums/Abuse-Support/show/147
If you feel suicidal, please visit http://befriendersindia.net/ or http://www.aasra.info/ and talk to your doctor about it soon.
I hope this has helped.
Emily
I'm sorry you aren't feeling well.
It sounds as if you are experiencing something called nocturnal emissions. You can google this for more info, but it's something that is totally normal for men to experience. You may wake up when it's happening, or you may sleep right through it. It won't cause any problems, so if you are feeling poorly, and are having some abnormal blood results, it doesn't have anything to do with this. Please continue to work with your doctor to find a cause.
It also sounds as if someone abused you when you were 16? If that's the case, please talk to your doctor about it, and let him know what happened, so he can determine if what happened could have any affect on your health. You might want to visit our Abuse Support Community - http://www.medhelp.org/forums/Abuse-Support/show/147
If you feel suicidal, please visit http://befriendersindia.net/ or http://www.aasra.info/ and talk to your doctor about it soon.
I hope this has helped.
Emily
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