Hi H, get your b/f, to go to pegym, and on there he looks for an exercsie called edging, its just a simple little exersize that say really works, he could also do some kegels as well wont hurt hiw but will give stronger ejeculations, and help pump blood into his p***s, all this will help for a better sex life.
Good Luck
I looked up your suggestion and am not sure that it will help.....he is always able to last longer during manual stimulation he admits it doesnt feel nearly as good as being in me we can try edging as a control exercise but any other suggestions would be appreciated.....thanks
No, I don't think there is anything wrong with you. Is everything okay as far as your foreplay?
Hi H, OK Now know were your coming from now, the reason behand this is in his head, us men get like this, masturbating by hand either on his own or by you great can go on for ever, but as soon as hits the heat of a womens vagina, its a whole new world, the brain kicks in and away it goes, we cant stop it, wild horses running over our backs,nothing.
Look if you have both been having sex for these two years, the thing would be to just get him in bed, and you get on top, and you are to take control, and for some time just sit there, dont move, and see just how long he can hold it back, and keep doing it, its a bit like tantric yoga, its a very deep sex move, Sting does it, its lasts for hours, but this should help him for just having his p**s in your vagina over a long period of time, and take it from there.
But do keep the edging going to start with.
Good Luck
Thanks N sounds good we will try it......and for remar our foreplay is great sometimes too good and he gets so over excited he is ready to *** before we get to intercourse but he.is really good about listening to me and not jumping into penitration before I am ready for it I have just always been the type that could enjoy sex for long periods of time and multiple orgasms....i miss that part of my sex life and while I dont expect it all the time it would be nice every once in a while
In a foreplay, female should get excited as much as possible, where as male should keep control on his excitement.During intercourse, man withdraws his genital periodically keeping one or one and half inch inside vagina. This is hot spot which is used as a resting place for penis. This spot is advantageous to both the partners. Male get different type of compression and female can grip penis head more intensely- thus creating different type of sensation and required control for man.
I'm going to suggest something that may sound a little strange. Have him masturbate a couple of hours before you two have sex. Or, you can take care of him with your hand. That way he won't be so excited when you get to sex latter on and hopefully will be able to last longer.
Thanks all for the advice we will try the new suggestions and if you have any more please share them no matter how strange you feel they are.....we like to try new things lol
Hi H, have a look on dobson and ross, every thing you want to know about sex and then some, its not porn its just loads of people giving advice, its run by DR Betty Dobson, she takes life one orgasm at a time, she runs life class's for women, she teachs them how to masturbate, how to orgasm and about there parts.
Good Luck