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Okay so last night my fiance and I had sex for the first time, I'm eighteen and he has been my first everything, besides kiss. Anyways last night my fiance had a really hard time getting his penis inside of me, and I was not helping, because it was hurting really bad, but I am pretty tight and he wears a x-large condom, so it makes sense. So after he got inside of me, he stared moving, and it hurt a little, but felt so good, anyways he went in deeper and broke my hymen, and it hurt so bad! I started bleeding heavy. Is that normal? My Fiance has never been with a virgin, so he got really worried he hurt me badly too, so he carried me to the bathroom and started helping me clean up.
Sorry this is so long, but is it normal to bleed a lot? And will it hurt the next time we have sex, or does it depend on the girl?
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it is called popping your cherry there is a lining thatstays intact until youhave sex it is called (lets see if I can spell if right) it your hinamen oso yes it is normal for 1 that it hurts and 2 you blood if it is a huge amount live heavier then a perion and or lasts longer then about 3 days you should contact your dr or go to the er.  But remember is it around the time for your period it will take you into your period so if your peroid lasts seven days then thats the amount of time you should bleed for.
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Hi Sabby, unusual name, OK some women dont bleed on getting there hymen broken, some a little to a lot, and some gush, sounds like you gushed, its ok dont worry, it will go away, say 24 hours, but getting less all the time.
So next time you have sex just remember lots of foreplay try some extra lubrication if you thing that would be best, but you will get used to his size, but just take things slowly, no need to rush you have a whole life in front of you, but then practice makes perfact, been married well over 40 years and still practice, well we call it that.
Good Luck
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When I lost my virginity at 15 I bled for 3 days and it did hurt at first. But it will get better Hun trust me. Just take it slow(:
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