Sleep Problem...

[Mikey1991]

Uhh, ok this is embarresing, but heres the question.
I'm 16 by the way.

A few weeks back, I (guy) was staying over at my cousins (girl) house and we slept on seperate couches. The couches are still close together though. Well I fell asleep and woke up with my hand on her arm. I quickly jerked away, and really nothing about it. Well last week I notice she isnt really talking to me much and I ask whats wrong. I really wish I wouldnt have, because it was quite embarrising. It took me about 2 days to get it out of her, but I finally did. She told me that night I had took her hand and did a lot of embarresing things. Well she is pretty pissed at me know, probably thinks I am some kind of pervert or something. But all I remember is waking up with my hand on her arm. What could this be?

[AIMandroman]

First of all, learn to spell separate; it will show any boss or potential employer that you know how to spell (there is A RAT in the word separate.).  Second, find a girl that doesn't mind you doing "embarrassing things" with her hand.  Third, don't bang your cousins.  Fourth, you're too young to be banging anyone.  Fifth, who cares?  Tell her you don't remember doing anything inappropriate and have sometimes had issues with sleep walking.  Sixth, I want more details on "embarrassing things."  :)  

[Enoch Choi, MD]

I agree with horse1, I wouldn't worry about it.  And agree that unless you have someone's consent to be intimate with them, I wouldn't sleep near or with anyone.

All you can do is say sorry, and it sounds like you have.  All you can do is be consistent with how you behave while you are awake and have control.

[horse1]

i wouldnt worry. every man i have ever been with has been touchy-feely during the night, and some say they are not even aware of it (dont know if believe this 100% :-). unless your behavior is manifesting itself in other ways, like exposing yourself in public, for example.

don't sweat it. to prevent the embarrassment from recurring in the future, dont sleep near or with anyone unless you are intimate with them.