Hey April, thanks for your advice again, its reeeealy apreciated. Over the past year, or even more, you've helped me through so much, and i really have changed as a person april, honestly. i believe in my future now and ive only had unprotected sex once, and it was mistake, however, i do understand where your coming from and im going to go to see a doctor soon, will let you know how i get on.
thanks again, take care.
xx
Dan, I don't know what it's going to take with you. You NEED to see a doctor. We are not doctors on here. We are very limited on what we can do or what advice we can offer. You need to stop having unprotected sex. You're just asking to get AIDS or an std. Why do you think so little of yourself? I'm so disappointed. I thought you were trying to turn your life around. I've been trying to talk to you for, what a year? You wouldn't feel so anxious and depressed if you would just stop the p e r v e r t e d sex. Yes, it's p e r v e r t e d. Any sex that is outside of a loving adult relationship is just that. You're only 16. You have your whole life ahead of you. Start believing in yourself. Believe that you deserve better. Wait for that loving, HEALTHY relationship and WAIT. You don't have to have sex. Sex without love is just an animal act. I'm sorry but it is. You are playing with fire and you're going to get burned. Is this worth dying over? I know, I know, I'm acting like your mother. Well, that's because I care about you and I don't want to see you destroy yourself. Please have some respect for yourself and start treating yourself better. You deserve that!
And PLEASE see a doctor. This is something you've been dealing with for a long time. You know that. You could be not only risking your life here but any chance of possibly having children some day if this is an std. You don't know what it is. Only a doctor can help and/or prescribe medication. Stop hiding in the dark and face the truth. You need to get this checked out. Yes, I know it would be embarrassing but it would be better than you permanently damaging yourself. I wish you well, Dan, I really do.
Take care of yourself.
Thanks for your help Paul, but ive had them for over a year now, maybe even more than 2 years, and i do wash them, alot, every day! and have been since i noticed them, but they seem to be under my skin, and they are down the side of my penis too?
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Dan,
It sounds like you're describing sebacious cysts. Each hair comes through a hole in the skin. Also down in each hole is a small gland that produces oil to keep your skin flexible. Sometimes (especially when you're experiencing new hair growth) bacteria get down into this hole and cause a small inflammation. This closes up the hole and causes the oil to clog it up. That's the white stuff you're seeing.
The way to get rid of them is simple. Wash the affected area each day. (You might want to use an antibacterial soap but I don't like it for routine use). Dial soap works great. When you're done make sure you dry off well. Don't squeeze them as this can cause it to spread to an adjacent follicle. They should be gone in a week or two. Good luck with it.