16 and need answers quick

[missyx0]

im 16 years old. i am now currently in a 2 year relationship with my boyfriend.. we have had unprotected sex all the time from the time we first descided to have sex. i have had my last normal period on march 6 2010. its now april and i haven't had my period. i am 12 days late and i am worried. i've been having very serious back pains, headaches, slight cramps, frequent runs back and forth to the bathroom to pee, i have been bloated for 11 days and its very annoying, i sleep more then ever, and a very slight pain in my breast. i took 3 pregnancy test and they all came back negative. i took one today but it came out negative because i drunk alot of fluid. i told my parents and now they want to know the answer. i go to the doctor at the end of the month. what should i do?

[missyx0]

i will thanks

[penswriter]

your best bet is to go to an ob/gyn and request a blood test.

[missyx0]

well yeah now he knows since i told him i might b pregnant. he told me that i need to start using protection or i should stop having sex. well kinda the same thing you jus told me.

i took my 1st pregnancy test 1 week after because i didnt feel well den i took the 2nd on an couple of days later.(both negative because it was to early) then i took another a week after and still negative and all these symtoms just came along.. i just dont understand.

thanks anyways

[penswriter]

your father knows your having unprotected sex and does not approve of b/c??? either get on something or you're going to end up a teen mom...if you're not already pregnant.

you can't go based on signs and symptoms and yes...it's possible to get a false  negative. i'm  not sure about multiple ones unless you took them before 2 weeks after the sexual encounter. go to an ob and request a blood test. then either get on b/c (despite what your father may say unless he plans on supporting you and a newborn) and use condoms...otherwise i'd say refrain from sex until you're old enough to care for a baby on your own.

[missyx0]

well i was talkin to my father about birth control and he said he does not approve of it... but does the sounds of this situation makes me seem lik im pregnant? yes or no? because my mother sid they could be false negtives

[penswriter]

you should also get on some form of b/c AND ALWAYS USE CONDOMS. you are extremely lucky you haven't gotten pregnant yet. b/c does and has failed. my brother got his 17 yr old ex gf pregnant while she was on b/c. their baby is due next month.

[missyx0]

thanks alot

[Collegebeauty22]

be patient...stress can cause your period to be late also. I completely missed a period one time and I wasn't pregnant. I was just stressed out...You are having symptoms, but it could be anything...The doctor's will do a blood test and then if you aren't pregnant they may talk to you about birth control...(if you aren't already on it)...good luck and be glad you have supportive parents...I hope everything works out for you