pregnant from fingering

[katie911994]

okay so I m a virgin and me and my boyfrind were just fooling around he kinda dry humped me and that month I got my period late and at first it was just spotin but then I got it for just 2 days after a week I knew I couldn't be pregnant coz that's not possible but after that my boyfriend fingered me before he did that he touched his pants and when I touched them after to check they were damp I feel silly askin this but is there a possibility that I could be pregnant? coz after that week next week he fingered me again I dint want him to but it happened anyway..  was suposed to get my period on the 26 th and it's still not here.. is it just coz of the stress I m causing myself and coz I have stopped excersizing  and my eatin habits have changed. I m concerned appritiate the responces.

[katie911994]

thank you guys i appritiate the responces..i will take a test
i think i m gettin my period soon coz my belly feels really tender now at touch for some reason and i have streaks of blood in my vaginal discharge.. only when i use the toilet that is tho..
n i been gettin cramps..
hopefully it will come soonn

[JadedSweetheart]

Just go to a store where you don't know anyone and get a test.  You can take it in the store bathroom (after you buy it, of course) and no one will know.  It will be ok.  You will be ok.  Just relax.  I've bought about 50 preg tests in my lifetime.  The most embarrassing time was the time my mom bought one and made me take it when I was 14. ( I turned out to be pregnant and my son is 12 now, but that is me)
It's really likely you're not pregnant, so try to chill.  Once you take a test, you'll feel SO much better.

[Lauren1994]

im not saying you should just saying it is a good idea. helped me. if you dont think your pregnant which you probably are not then the test will come up negative and this will make you feel so much better and the stress will go and your period should come.

[katie911994]

why should i buy one tho i dont think i m pregnant i m just worried why my period isnt here.. idkkk

[Lauren1994]

yeah, i didn't want to do one, just seems a little weird so i totally understand. the best way to get one is a close friend or a friends parent. your 16 so you could go and get one yourself but you might find this embaressing. speak to your friends about the issue and see what they think, they will have some support for you.

[katie911994]

ah idk i dont wanna do a test..like how am i suposed to get it anyway

[Lauren1994]

yeah i know what you mean, it's just the worry of it all. even if you think your not it will probably be best to take a test because it will put your mind at rest and you can forget about it. the chances hat you are likely arelike second to none so you shouldn't worry yourself. But i know when people say not to worry you cant help but worry so i recommend that you get a friend or a close adult to get you a test and help you through it.

[katie911994]

yeah I guess I could ask but I really don't think I m pregnant like it's prolly only stress that I m causin my body and all the changes... idk I m scared but I really don't think I m pregnant but I think I m idk how to explain

[Lauren1994]

i am only 15 but luckily my mums friend is very laid back and she is a midwife so she got the test for me and helped me sort everything out. do you have a friend's parent that you are close with? even a friend could get the test for you if they are not embaressed about doing so. it will really put your mind at rest.

[katie911994]

yeah i think its stress but i m still worried and who is goin to by me the test i m scared to tell anyone...n who to tell i m only 16

[Lauren1994]

i thought that i was pregnant a few days back and i worried about it for so long, my period was so late and it never had been before. i took a test and my mums friend is a midwife so she looked at my tummy and things to check. the test came out negative and the next day i came on the period, 15 days late but it still came. you could not be coming on because of stress because that is very likely. if you take a test it will put your mind at ease, would be the best thing to do

[katie911994]

i m still worried...i still havent had my period i m really stressed and maybe its just be panicing but i feel like my belly is growin i m really scared at this moment...i dont think i m pregnant like its not possible coz he never took off his pants n never came..precum sure i dont know about it but his pants were damp..i dont think sperm travls through jeans..i m just worried

[katie911994]

yes he touched over his jeans not directly and yes I think we need to talk and also that .. thank you I think it is because I m stressing and makin myself think bad

[Jojo2208]

Your period may be late because you are stressing so much about this which is understandable. If he touched himself before then touching you then yes, there is a possibility that some sperm could have been transferred. It might be worth you doing a test to make sure.

I think you also need to think about your relationship - you say you didnt want him to do it to you but he did it anyway. I hope he shows more respect for you in future and listens to what you want.

[katie911994]

thank you and oh I will be carefull well I won't let it happen again and my concern is that he touched his jeans I don't think sperm or precum can go through jeans but is there a chance it might have?

[shevyla]

Well stress can cause your period to be late. In this case your probably not pregnant however ejaculation even pre ejaculation can can get you pregnant if it is placed by his fingers or is close to your vagina opening. The likely hood is low but be careful.