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OKAY see Look Last Time I remember I Had My Period Is On May 16th 2011 then 7-8 Days after that i got My Period But it was weird cause it only lasted 3 dayS My Typical Period Length is 5-6 days . Then I got my period in June that I really dont remeber . . . That didnt last long either Ever since that one i Never got another One . . . AND ever since Then I Had 1 Head ache, alot of lower back aches,My vagina has been in like shooting pain going up and down,my breast and Nipples just started to hurt everytime I run or touch them,I cried all day yesturday, just alot of weird stuff has been happening to me . . . . IM only 14 Im not scared I Juss Need answers . . . I KNOW if I am I going to be a good Mommy and Daddy.
So If anyone out there caress enough to reply pleasee Help With the correct answers . THANXS .
So If anyone out there caress enough to reply pleasee Help With the correct answers . THANXS .
Have you been having unprotected sex while all this is going on with your period?
Many things can cause the symptoms you describe.
Let me say...at 14 the LAST thing you need to be thinking about is becoming a parent. Even the most mature 14 year old in the world is in no way, shape or form ready to become a parent.
If you think you would be a good parent...let me ask you, should a GOOD parent put the needs or their child first? Should a parent do what is BEST for their child and do everything they can to make sure their child is healthy and has the best chance at a good life?
A good parent is going to answer yes to all of the above. With that in mind...think about this: Children born to teenage mothers are at higher risk for being abused; and from birdsandbees.org "Health Risks Specific to Teen Pregnancy: A baby born to a teenage mother is more at risk of certain serious problems than a baby born to an older mother including low birthweight, toxemia (high-blood pressure), premature labor, miscarriage and death of mother or infant during childbirth. Additionally, 3 million teens are infected with a sexually transmitted infection. These include syphilis (which can cause infant blindness, maternal death, and death of the infant), chlamydia (which can cause infant blindness) and HIV (the virus which causes AIDS).
Education: Teen mothers are more likely to drop out of high school than girls who delay childbearing. Fewer than half of teenagers who have children before age 18 go on to graduate from high school.
Finances: Teen mothers are more likely to live in poverty than women who delay childbearing, and over 75% of all unmarried teen mothers go on welfare within 5 years of the birth of their first child."
Children of teen mothers are also less likely to finish high school, more likely to drop out and more likely to become teen parents themselves.
Does that sound as though choosing to have a child when you are still a child yourself is BEST for your child?
Please do yourself a favor and use a condom EVERY time. Condoms not only help prevent unplanned pregnancy, they help protect against sexually transmitted diseases. Your partner can have an STD and not even know it. STDs can cause long term pain, disability, infertility and even death. You owe it to yourself to protect yourself. You are WORTH protecting.
Many things can cause the symptoms you describe.
Let me say...at 14 the LAST thing you need to be thinking about is becoming a parent. Even the most mature 14 year old in the world is in no way, shape or form ready to become a parent.
If you think you would be a good parent...let me ask you, should a GOOD parent put the needs or their child first? Should a parent do what is BEST for their child and do everything they can to make sure their child is healthy and has the best chance at a good life?
A good parent is going to answer yes to all of the above. With that in mind...think about this: Children born to teenage mothers are at higher risk for being abused; and from birdsandbees.org "Health Risks Specific to Teen Pregnancy: A baby born to a teenage mother is more at risk of certain serious problems than a baby born to an older mother including low birthweight, toxemia (high-blood pressure), premature labor, miscarriage and death of mother or infant during childbirth. Additionally, 3 million teens are infected with a sexually transmitted infection. These include syphilis (which can cause infant blindness, maternal death, and death of the infant), chlamydia (which can cause infant blindness) and HIV (the virus which causes AIDS).
Education: Teen mothers are more likely to drop out of high school than girls who delay childbearing. Fewer than half of teenagers who have children before age 18 go on to graduate from high school.
Finances: Teen mothers are more likely to live in poverty than women who delay childbearing, and over 75% of all unmarried teen mothers go on welfare within 5 years of the birth of their first child."
Children of teen mothers are also less likely to finish high school, more likely to drop out and more likely to become teen parents themselves.
Does that sound as though choosing to have a child when you are still a child yourself is BEST for your child?
Please do yourself a favor and use a condom EVERY time. Condoms not only help prevent unplanned pregnancy, they help protect against sexually transmitted diseases. Your partner can have an STD and not even know it. STDs can cause long term pain, disability, infertility and even death. You owe it to yourself to protect yourself. You are WORTH protecting.
Okay I want to help but needinformation 1st. You said you had a period in June...Do you remember approximatly when it started? Unless it was the 1st week of June you might not be pregnant. It is very possible that the simptoms you have described is from being young and your body changing from hormones. How long have you been having a period? If you just started getting a period in the last year then your period can varie. Your body is still trying to figure it out. Im not saying you are not pregnant for sure but if you think it is even possible then you need to talk to your mom about it. I can answer more if you give me more info...hope I helped. Be safe! Good Luck!
So you got your period on May 16? How long did this last, and were you due a period when you had this? Then 7-8 days after this started (or the last period ended)? you started bleeding again but only for 3 days?
The period in June...was this at the time your period would have been due or what? and now in July you've not had your period? How late is this period?
Sorry for all the questions but I need this information to help clarify what could be wrong.
You say you're 14.....you're body is still going through MANY changes and trying to regulate and get itself into a cycle. You might be into your 20s before it reaches a cycle. I really don't think you have anything to worry about. Obviously if you've been having unprotected sex (which you really shouldn't be at 14) then you could get pregnant. You can take a pregnancy test to see what it says. But it's more than likely just your age and not having a normal cycle yet.
The period in June...was this at the time your period would have been due or what? and now in July you've not had your period? How late is this period?
Sorry for all the questions but I need this information to help clarify what could be wrong.
You say you're 14.....you're body is still going through MANY changes and trying to regulate and get itself into a cycle. You might be into your 20s before it reaches a cycle. I really don't think you have anything to worry about. Obviously if you've been having unprotected sex (which you really shouldn't be at 14) then you could get pregnant. You can take a pregnancy test to see what it says. But it's more than likely just your age and not having a normal cycle yet.
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