Aa
TEEN SEEKING ADVICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
ok so me and my boyfriend has unprotected sex on january 10th he didnt pull out but he says he can hold in his sperm. but he dosent know if any came out in me. But my ovluation day was january 11th. well recently ive been feeling a little icky and my next period doesnt start until januray 28th 2010 my last period started december 31 2009. January 20th i noticed i was spotting brown nothing was red at all and i had no cramps. It was light and was always brown today is january 23 and th spotting has completly stopped but my lower stomch is very sore. mY BRESTS feel sore and heavy and my lower back is killing me i also been feelin nauseas here and there. I usually spot brown the day before my period starts and its usually light pink and brown but im spotting 9 days before my expected period. Since im so young i was wondering could it be implant bleeding? or what? ive looked up as much as i can but need one on one advice becuase i think i am pregnant. please help. :) thanks
Im going to but im gunna wait until its time to. i dont wanna take one too early
Take a test as soon as you can. That's the only way to know for sure. Your symptoms can be related to pregnancy but pregnancy symptoms are very similar to premenstrual symptoms.
Fist off men cannot hold in their sperm... Even if they could pre *** has sperm and can get you pg. Also you have no way of knowing your o day unless you do basal body temping or are doing OVK. And sperm can live in you for 5 days. There is a good possiblity that you are pg. You can test positive for pg 14 days after sex. If you aren't pg I hope you get on birth control so to avoid a pg. As always condoms should be used to prevent aids if your boyfriend is lying to you about holding in his sperm he could be lying to you about cheating. Also if you are pg adoption is a beautiful option...
. and yes i know about all that the main reason i think i am is because i was spotting brown 9 days b4 my period for 2 days light but it stopped completly todayy! and we still have sex is that dangerous if yur preg?! and after the sex i started to cramp and was sore i was worried. is that normal? i just want to be caeful for now until i find out for sure
you can have sex if you are pg... but you need to use protection in case you aren't.. if you are cramping you could have an STD and should probably be checked
To: melimeli,
We do use protection, but EVERY girl cramps, but I do not have an STD I have been checked many times.
We do use protection, but EVERY girl cramps, but I do not have an STD I have been checked many times.
um yes every girl cramps but not if you're pregnant...if you are pregnant you need to be seen and checked. just because you've been checked for STDs before does not mean you haven't contracted one since then. your bf could have been unfaithful, you never know, and for the baby's sake (if you are pregnant) you have GOT to get checked. use protection for now and get seen asap by a doctor.
To:Ashelen
I should be asking the same for you. My boyfriend hasn't been unfaithful considering he lives with me & we go nowhere, & I have been checked I was checked a month ago. Anyways I have enough advice thanks.
I should be asking the same for you. My boyfriend hasn't been unfaithful considering he lives with me & we go nowhere, & I have been checked I was checked a month ago. Anyways I have enough advice thanks.
To:melimeli
Did I say I know EVERYTHING, no I did not, I think I have enough advice from you :)
It's not really cramping, it's more of a soreness.
Did I say I know EVERYTHING, no I did not, I think I have enough advice from you :)
It's not really cramping, it's more of a soreness.
ok hannah you said that your bf said he could hold in his sperm and you believed him, shows you aren't too knowledgeable, understandable as you are young but. .. You came on here asking for advice and everyone that answers your questions you say I know.. and then say you don't want anymore advice from the people trying to help you. so whats up do you just want someone to tell you what you want to hear? and what is that? do you want to hear that you aren't pg? ok your not, good luck with that
Im sorry but i completly agree, when men say that its utter rubbish and quite worrying as they are basically not bothered about getting you pregnant, me and my partner are in the same boat as the condom failed, im just now waiting for my period to start, ive only experienced sore boobs yday and today, ive noticed my boobs feel like very lumpy (like when u start ur period) could this be an indicator of pregnancy? i also had ALOT of discharge last week (after ovulation and our little accident with the condom), feel very tired also and had very light cramps on my lower belly, im 14 dpo tomorrow so i might just wait and see if my period comes its due 28th jan, any infor would be much apreciated, i was also very weepy last week EVEN when i was very happy i felt like crying (this is weird for me as i dont even feel like that when im due on ) thanks x
ok im sorry your rightt... im just stressed... and yeah i was naive and believed him but theres nothing i can do noww... i just need to know what i should do. I made a doctors appoitment at the pregnancy resource center for next week so i should know then..... but thanks anywayszz.
dont be sorry its understandable! like ive said im in the same boat, im waiting on my period, i have to wait another week! the waiting is terrible! its good that youve done that, least youll know for sure, goodluck and let us know how it goes :)
Yeah i found a place where i dnt need a parent and its free. And i usually spot the day or two b4 my period and i satrted spotting the 20th thru the 22 lightttt brown not alot thought and now its completly stopped and my period dont start until the 28th thats why im leaning towards yes and my boobs are veryyy sore and ive noticed i wake up alot during my sleep stretching and the left side of my stomache is sore. but ill let yal lknow what happens
OMG this is simular to me hannah :O im also due the 28th, ive been VERY sleepy and sluggish also! spotting is a sign of implantation, (when the egg borrows into the womb) that happens at about 6-12 days after, i never had that but i did had ALOT of (sorry graphic) watery discharge, ive also had a dream last night of a positive preg test which spooked me out, today (13days after ) my breasts feel larger and harder, maybe thats period i dont know but i do know that ive been just feeling weird, im excite4d to know how you go, good to know somones in the same boat :) 28th needs to get here sooner the waiting is killing me lol, i have had slight disconfort in my left side but mostly in my right, i guess every bodies different :)
Well ive been having weird dreams too. and my brests r really sore today and im not even spotting anymore. It was lightt brown onli for 2 days. i just have that feeling..... and im bloated but theres no cramps or anything my back is just a little sore if i turn a certain way same for my stomache.
Hmmm could be implantation bleeding if the dates add up, ive felt very faint today and this afternoon i jumped out of bed really quick from having a nap and had a sore pain in my right lower belly, Yh the dream was spooky, i took two preg tests and they came back with 2 lines (positive) was weird :S
when are you going to test? i wanted to wait until (IF) i was late but its the 14th day after tomorrow and the waiting is killing me but i dont want to test too early :S
when are you going to test? i wanted to wait until (IF) i was late but its the 14th day after tomorrow and the waiting is killing me but i dont want to test too early :S
Yea. im pretty sure i am. Im jus gunna wait but you could jus buy more than one test take one now and after or if you miss your period. I was looking stuff up and it said you usualy experience IP a week before your period or a few days. so i think thats what it is and im only 17 so idk much about pregnancy so im trying to look up as much stuff as i can. But im going to take one the 28th and i have a doc appoitment nxt thursday so ill see then. WHen are you going to take one?! and everything adds up. and when me and my boyfriend had sex i added everything up and i was supposed to ovulate the 11th and we had sex on the 10th. r u still spotting?! and if so what does yours look like?!
I had sex on the 11th and i was supposed to ovulate then (being the first day), the symptoms ive had are deffinitly not normal which makes me wonder if i could be...
Yh i was going to i just didnt want to be too paronoid, wanted to just see if i was late, ive had to do loads of research too :) im only 16, nearly 17, if im late by a day or 2 i will test, if my period is unnormal ill test again just to be safe, i havent had spotting what so ever but on the days that could have been implantation i had a HUGE amount of clear,watery mucus after sex (never had this before EVER) it worried me bcos the second time was a massive amount but it was just clear really, not all woman have spotting but you could well have :)
Yh i was going to i just didnt want to be too paronoid, wanted to just see if i was late, ive had to do loads of research too :) im only 16, nearly 17, if im late by a day or 2 i will test, if my period is unnormal ill test again just to be safe, i havent had spotting what so ever but on the days that could have been implantation i had a HUGE amount of clear,watery mucus after sex (never had this before EVER) it worried me bcos the second time was a massive amount but it was just clear really, not all woman have spotting but you could well have :)
Ohhh yeah i had light brown for two days but not all woman expericence it. but did yall use protection. my boyfriend didnt even pull out. so thats another reason i think i am. But im just gunna take a test if i miss mine.
Ahhh your chances would be higher than mine as we used a condom but it had a small tear :/
Ohhhh well how do you know it had a tear?! but me and him didnt use anything but he said he squeezed the bottom when he started to come so it wouldnt come out butt ummm.... he dosent know if any did or not when he pulled out he had came soooo... but do you wanna be pregnant?!!?
Have an Answer?
You are reading content posted in the Teen Pregnancy Concerns Community
Get information and tips on how to help you choose the right place to deliver your baby.
Get the facts on how twins and multiples are formed and your chance of carrying more than one baby at a time.
Learn about the risks and benefits of circumcision.
What to expect during the first hours after delivery.
Learn about early screening and test options for your pregnancy.
Learn about testing and treatment for GBS bacterium.
