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hey ummm now this is gonna annoy people or whatever but I am in abit of a difficult situation! I live in a small town and cant buy a hpt without anyone i know knowing and the closest doc is in the city and have no way of getting there and don't even think of saying get a trusted adult to buy one! so any way I had sex on the 5th 7th 18th and 24th of January (protection used on 24th but needed to be replaced and pulled out the other times) also on the 24th of December!! I missed my period on the 11th of January and the 12th of Febuary! I have gained alittle weight, stomach has firmed, threw up once or twice, feeling tired and sick, pains rarely in stomach, also eating more and i have been discharging white stuff! and I have been told I could be pregnant! also please don't say it could be cause by stressed cause I'm not stressed or anything!!
well I have very supportive friends and aunties and grandparents and school is gonna get easier since this is my last year at school anyways!! but work is gonna get harder and i wont be doing my theater performances and soccer, but I don't mind cause when my child is older I can help out with their activities they like and it will be good!! :) and thanks everyon for your support and advice!!!!
I'm about 3 months and 6 days! and I doubt it they were quite clear that they don't wanna see my face agai and will not help out with anything!! and I don't like intruding on my nan and pop so I'm looking for a place to rent!! and I don't wanna put it up for adoption!!
Another option to think about is adoption. It can be a beautiful thing for all involved. good luck
I'm glad that you finally found out for sure that you are pregnant. It is important to get prenatal care as soon as possible so it's a good thing you went. How far along are you? Your parents will come around it will take time for them to adjust that there baby is having a baby. I hope everything works out for you and that you are able to finish high school. It is hard to do with a baby but it is not impossible and it is very important. Good luck with everything.
well I went to the docs! and now I officially know I am indeed pregnant! and now living with my grandparents, cause my parents kinda don't like the fact I am pregnant and im telling the guy that I am! and Im not gonna get an abortion! I'm gonna continue school over webcam/Internet/phone ect. and my sports I'm gonna have to put off, and my apprenticeship and my performances! but I don't mind to much Im still gonna hang with friends until I can't!! thanks everyone for all your advice!
If you are responsable enough to have unprotected sex then I believee you should he responsable enough to go talk to whom evers house you are living under and by a pregnancy test. It's for your own good and the babies good if you are pregnant. And also barb8811 you have no right to tell anyone NOT to have an abortion that is your OWN oppinion nd should be kept to yourself unless someone asks you. It doesn't matter how you feel about it other people may feel different and may be in different shoes, I got pregnant at the age of 16 and my mom and bf at the time pressured me into getting an abortion, and now that I look back at it I feel it was what was best for mebecause of I needed to graduate highschool ad continue swimming and if I wouldn't have I would never have gotten to do those things, not only that but we did not want that drunk and drug headed family to be in our lives for the rest of our lives. And didn't want me to have a baby to those people either. If she wants to get an abortion it may just be the right choice for her (not saying to do so) just that it is her choice and for her ro have a baby when she is ready. I'm now 19 and 26 weeks pregnant and READY to be a mother and couldnt be happier.
i just dont think abortion is an option unless there is a real reason like : rape, being underage (younger than 14), or being at some sort of risk because of the pregnancy....but I dont see a reason to have an abortion here...remember when you have an abortion you are taking life ....what about the baby's right to live?
It's not really your place to tell someone to get an abortion or not. Ever woman has the right to choose for themselves without some stranger given them a hard time
ok , just dont get an abortion and take real good care of your baby if you are pregnant...good luck
well I asked my friend to buy me a test the other day and what the hell is walgreens! anyway I'm going back to the docs for yet again more tests cause before all the pregnancy concerns happened I had been going to the doctors to get tests and stuff cause I was ill and still don't know what it was, so they did an ultra sound and blood tests!! this was before I was 16 so mum had to tag along and I couldn't say that I was concerned I was pregnant! but now I'm going to tell my doc my next appointment!! and the guy is gone don't know where when he got his P's he disappeared! and I know having a baby isn't a joke you don't think I know! my best friend when she got pregnant was good healthy and normal was really fine with it for awhile until parents adults put pressure on her and she lost it! anyway I thank you for the comments, and I don't think you'll want me to keep commenting on how I'm going so thanks again! :)
OK. This is WHAT YOUR GOING TO DO:
1- you tell your "label-less man" to go to walgreens and get you the test
2- if he doesnt cooperate you ll get the oldest looking friend you have and make her buy it...(and this is ridiculous because you being responsable buy buying a test so you shouldnt worry about what other people think!"
3- TALK TO THE GUY WHO GOT YOU PREGNANT remember youll need to make him get a paternity test so in court theyll make him give you the support, there are laws that obligate a man to take the test...
4- DO NOT GET AN ABORTION IF YOUR PREGNANT
5- TELL YOUR PARENTS, they will be dissapointed but they are your parents and will help you, if not , then tell your grandparents
6- and if your not pregnant for THE LOVE OF GOOOOD, wear protection and get you **** together because you only 16 and life is gonna get WORST....man up or woman up, because a baby is not a joke...is a human being and it will be your baby...
7- hope your not pregnant...get a test NOW
1- you tell your "label-less man" to go to walgreens and get you the test
2- if he doesnt cooperate you ll get the oldest looking friend you have and make her buy it...(and this is ridiculous because you being responsable buy buying a test so you shouldnt worry about what other people think!"
3- TALK TO THE GUY WHO GOT YOU PREGNANT remember youll need to make him get a paternity test so in court theyll make him give you the support, there are laws that obligate a man to take the test...
4- DO NOT GET AN ABORTION IF YOUR PREGNANT
5- TELL YOUR PARENTS, they will be dissapointed but they are your parents and will help you, if not , then tell your grandparents
6- and if your not pregnant for THE LOVE OF GOOOOD, wear protection and get you **** together because you only 16 and life is gonna get WORST....man up or woman up, because a baby is not a joke...is a human being and it will be your baby...
7- hope your not pregnant...get a test NOW
And he should get you a pregnancy test. (Of course, if you are pregnant, his name is going to be mentioned.)
well I'm haha 16 and no I'm not close with my parent but my grandparents have been more supporting trough my life! and yes I told the guy about he kinda freaked but told me I should tell my parents but not mention him at all!
Even if he's not your boyfriend, you certainly can tell him that he owes you that much. Sheez, what a mess when you go for child support if he won't even get you a test.
If your saying that there is no way that you can get a pregnancy test and there is no adult that you can trust what are you going to do? Wait until you go into labor to tell someone your pregnant. I'm sure your scared right now if you can't tell anyone but your gonna have to. If you usually have normal periods and you have now missed two periods plus all the other symptoms you described then it is very likely your pregnant and you need to get prenatal care for your baby and yourself and start taking vitamins. How old are you? Are you close with your parents? Or any other relatives? What about the guy does he know about the situation?
Why wouln't he buy one? That's the least he can do if yur gunna be carrying his child for nine months
Get your boyfriend to buy the test. If he is man enough to have unprotected sex and risk becoming a dad, he is man enough to buy a pregnancy test.
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