is it possible?

[liz3500]

I'm 15 and before you guys all come out in saying I shouldn't be having sex just take a look at the world around you today, it's not hard to see why kids our age are doing it. With that aside, I didn't want to at first but we kind of just got into it. My boyfriend, who's also 15, is great but I'm concerned. I don't really keep track of my period from month to month and I'm starting to worry. I make him use condoms and they've never broke, I have no pregnancy symptoms so far, but I'm just asking how possible it is to become pregnant with pre-***. Sometimes he puts it in without a condom on but he never goes inside me. I might have missed my period but I don't think so. Really this is just a chance question. How possible is it to become pregnant through pre-***?

[Leiqhlay]

Child your 15 and so am I . And stop having sex and dont let him go in
un-pretected because i never let him go in with out a condom
and i think im pregnant. Keep track of your periods ! Epically if
your going to be sexually active. You can become pregnant from
pre-*** , and any type of sex runs the chance of pregnancy
you should take a pregnancy test ! I know once you have sex with your
boyfriend, mines is also 15 it kind of just happens again & again.
But until you could be ready for a child don't keep having sex. Keep it
down away frm penis/vagina sex. Oral sex is better ! Theres no run risk
or pregnancy.

[kirsty702]

I think that if you feel you can you should try talking to you mum i dont know her but i can only go off personal experince but i think she would feel better knowing that if you are having sex you are taking the right precautions, how would she feel if she found out you was pregnant ? also i think you really need to think about having sex and how you feel about about it as in your first messgae you put that you didnt want to at first but you just got into it, if you are not sure if you are ready for sexual relationships then maybe waitng a while until you know how you feel about it might be a good idea, its totally your choice but it needs to be the right one you cant turn back time and undo things once they have been done !

Good luck !

[penswriter]

I'm with Clysta, why let the world sway what you do?

Yes pre ejaculate can get you pregnant. If you have sex you run the chance of getting pregnant. No birth control is 100%. The only thing you can do is take an hpt 2 weeks after the last sexual encounter.

[Clysta]

It's not that people will go crazy because of age. It's when people are irresponsible about it that makes others disapprove. Out of curiosity though, what does the world have to do with your choice? But in terms of your original question, it's very possible to get pregnant from pre-ejaculation. All men, whether they feel it or not, have this and it does contain trace amounts of sperm. It doesn't matter how long it's for, or if he ejaculated in you or not. You always need to be using protection if you're not trying for children. If you don't have any, don't have sex. The risks just aren't worth it and just because it hasn't happened yet doesn't mean it won't.  

[liz3500]

I know but the thing is my mother would never let me go on birth control. She's very..I guess old fashioned? But i don't know... I have an older sister and an older cousin that could get stuff for me it's just I'd be going behind my mom and stuff. Also, doesn't birth control like have an age thing... 16 with prescription and some other age to buy it yourself?

[kirsty702]

well first dont worry about people on here having a go at you about having sex at 15 its not like that at all and i dont think anyone on here would do that, in fact i think you are very responsible for asking questions you are unsure of and making sure you take precautions ! Right as for pre *** i think thats what you are asking well yes it would be possible to get pregnant from precum although it is not as effective as the real thing it is *** all the same and if your boyfriend is inside you with no condom even if he does "pull out" before he cums then there is still a chance of getting pregnant, so i would say to make sure your boyfriend puts on the condom prior to going inside you, also you said you dont keep track of your periods i woould say it would be a good idea if you are sexually active to do that get to know your body and whats normal for you, things like what syptoms you get prior to coming on and during your period, how may days is your monthly cycle this will help you in the event of an accident.  Also have you thought about going on to the pill as an extra caution it doesnt mean that you have stop using condoms you could do both and be extra safe also going on the pill can help you to regulate your periods if you have trouble keeping track of them !!!!