I would talk to your doctor who performed the HOLEP procedure. Up to 70 percent do have some ejaculation issues after the procedure, usually retrograde ejaculation. Now, it doesn't sound like you are having dry orgasms (which are not harmful other than if you are trying to conceive). The HOLEP is a usually safe procedure. Talk to your doctor about this though. https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/treatments/17917-holmium-laser-enucleation-of-the-prostate-holep