I knew 2 guys who had redundant foreskins, and they too hated them. I know of kids who got a minimal circ, a little off the end of the foreskin, and those turned out fine, including 2 sons and a nephew. Also I knew 3 guys in school who had partials that looked like pigs in a blanket, and that actually looked good. Depending on how wide the extra foreskin is, it might be possible to get the result you want. Otherwise a partial might be a reasonable compromise for you, but be sure to keep the frenulum to hold it all in place. I hope you found a doc who could offer you a result that would help, but surely no doc could promise an exact look or result. A very long excess foreskin didn't look like a practical thing to me, and I hope you can or did get a foreskin reduction or minimal circ and have a better experience with your tool now.
I forgot to add, is there anyone who knows of anyone who has had just some of the foreskin at the end taken off and didn't have to have a full circumcision?