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I really need some advice ladies.. :/

I had a csection 4 weeks ago and I know I'm suppose to wait 6 weeks to have sex but my partner and I started having sex again after 2 weeks.. He pulled out every time but I know there's still a good chance I'm pregnant.. He told me if I'm pregnant he wants me to get rid of it and I don't think I can do that :( I know its a lot but I can't look at my little boy and know I'd be getting rid of another one of him.. Does that make sense? If I am pregnant and its safe for me to carry to term I really want to keep it... I just cannot get an abortion.. I'm torn apart thinking of it.
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Do what you feel is right for you. Not him or anyone else. I am due in Feb and my bf wanted me to get rid of him and I told him no and if it means he hates me forever then so so be it. He got used to the idea a few weeks later and things have been great ever since.
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My little boys are 11 months apart and I love having them so close. I'm pregnant with our 3rd now and Due in Aug. My youngest will be 2 Sunday and my oldest will be three exactly 3 weeks later on the 24th. Never would we even consider an abortion because we would instantly regret it. It may be a little rough but it's worth it.
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Thank you both... I truly believe I'll regret it for the rest of my life too. I couldn't get rid of one of my babies..
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I just had my daughter in september, and now I'm pregnant again and due in august. My husband and I are really excited! I know it'll be crazy having babies 11 months apart, but I think itll be fun at the same time. Just take a pregnancy test and give your parter some time to adjust to the idea. Good luck!
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I think it would be something you would regret for the rest of your life. It would give you postpartum depression for sure. Plenty of people have "Irish twins" and manage just fine. It may be tough but it will be a blessing to have another gift from God. Just relax take a test and go from there. But there are plenty of support resources for you to reach out to
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