Please help me!

[Melina511]

I'm honesty so confused and lost right now, and any help would be much appreciated.

I had sex with a guy I met in a club (I know, recipe for disaster). We were both drunk and I remember seeing him put a condom on and waking up to see the condom on the floor. The sex didn't last too long because I was in pain so I'm DEFINITE he didn't ejaculate inside me.

It's been OVER FOUR MONTHS and I've still to see my period. I took two home pregnancy test at the end of April, on two different days, and they both came out negative. I was satisfied for a while, but where's my period?

Now, four months without a period, I took another pregnancy test, and that came back negative. I bought a pack of two so I'll take the next one tomorrow.

In the last two months, I've gained 3kgs, especially around my belly area. I have been eating more than usual, coupled with lack of exercise, but I physically resemble a pregnant girl. I've been under a lot of stress and anxiety for a while, but could that really delay a period for four months?

Also, I had one Depo-Provera shot and I hated what it did to me so I didn't get another one.

I'm absolutely terrified! I don't want a baby at all, and if if turns out that I am pregnant, it may be too late to do anything about it.

I'm calling my GP on Monday to errange a blood test, because I don't know what else I can do. I'm terifried to tell my mom, so I won't, but I just really need some support at this time.

Judging by all that I've written, does anyone suspect that I may actually be pregnant? Is this even likely? Please help.

Also, my period has always been a little irregular, but nothing like this.

[Melina511]

I've gained weight, especially around my stomach, so that's making me very nervous. But, admittedly, I've eaten a lot more junk in the last few months than I usually do (pizzas, chinese, fast food, etc) and I'm eating bread everyday. I'm trying to assure myself that I've gained weight because of that.

Yami_19, congratulations on your baby! I wish you a wonderful and healthy pregnancy and delivery.

As for me, I know that's not the route I want to take. And I've also had zero symptoms. No vomiting, nausea, boobs growing, fatigue, any of that. So I'm just in the dark for now.

[yami_19]

Similar thing happened to me. I have always been irregular on my periods I'm also 20. I didn't get my period for the months of February March April or May. I seriously thought I was loosing weight and that I was probably anemic never in my life would I have thought I was pregnant specially because those 4 months were really stressful for me. When I went to the doctor the first things the doctor did was a pregnancy test and boom it came out possitive. Idk if this helped your worries but I'm actually very happy with my pregnancy. Im excited. And if you decide and qualify for an abortion think about throughly the doctors prepare you for any physical pain but everyone reacts to it differently emotionally. Good luck:)

[Melina511]

I'm buying a clear blue test Monday morning and then walking to my local Gp and booking an appointment straight away. My time is running out if I'm going to quality for a late term abortion. If I'm 20 weeks, that leaves me four to get the abortion.

This isn't what I wanted my life to be at all. I just wish my period would come to let me know that I'm not pregnant and I could forget about all this and move on with my life by making better choices for myself.

Thank you for replying.

[xojensen_]

Well stress can definitely cause a missed period as well as weird symptoms to make you think you are. Four months is a long time to go without a positive pregnancy test so to be honest I doubt you are pregnant.

But since your period is irregular sometimes it's hard to say your best bet is to be patient for your appointment and ask for a blood test.